Please I Have Nobody To Turn To

8 Replies
MKJ - July 26

HI I AM 13 YEARS OLD. I HAVE BEEN SEXUALY ACTIVE SENSE I WAS 12. I NORMALLY USE CONDOMS, BUT I DID NOT USE THEM ON THE 19 OR THE 21 OF THIS MONTH WHEN WE HAD SEX. MY LAST PERIOD WAS ON JULY 1,04. DO YOU THINK THAT ITS POSSIBLE THAT I COULD HAVE GOTTEN PREGNANT???

 

Gina - July 22

Shouldn't you be thinking about playing with your friends and other things besides s_x. Personally if you were my daughter I would put you on birth control myself. Didn't your parents teach you about s_x and the consequences? Hopefully you are not you are a baby yourself.

 

Melissa - July 22

You could be pregnant. Take a test to know for sure come August, if you do not get your period. Sweetie, you are sooo young. You really should not be having s_x, the consequences can be devestating. Yes, you could become pregnant, but you could also get a s_xually transmitted disease. If you are pregnant, I hope there is someone you can talk to and help you through it. Your ife will change completely. You have your whole life ahead of you. Why are you gambling with your future? Sure, s_x is great, but you need to save it for your husband. You need to finish your schooling, go to college, find the man you want to spend the rest of your life with and who loves you, get married, then think about having s_x and children. At least, you need to be an adult to be having s_x. Technically, it is against the law for a teenager to be s_xually active. Especially if her partner is over 18! Please think twice about engaging in s_x, you have so much more to be doing. You deserve better. I can almost gurantee you that the person you are sleeping with only wants your body and does not love you. Make better choices and good luck. Keep us posted.

 

brucen - July 22

Yes, MKJ you could be pregnant. Melissa gave very good advice. You should talk to someone you trust about this, especially if the person you are having s_x with is much older than you. What he is doing is wrong and he knows better. It is wrong even if you want to have s_x with him, because of what you are going through now and you are no where near the age of consent in any state. There are people around who can help you, so please talk to someone you trust. Technically, is not against the law for teenagers to have s_x. It is against the law for adults to have s_x with teenagers under the age of consent. Age of consent varies by state.

 

MKJ - July 23

HI, IT'S JUST ME. PLEASE, I'M NOT SURE WHEN I WOULD HAVE BEEN FERTILE. I REALLY NEED ANSWERS. SCARED

 

Helping out - July 23

I don't want to scare you but there is a great chance that you are pregnant. Gina is right you are very young you should still be playing with barbies or something like that. Don't tell the guy yet because you will just scare him away. Make sure you take a pregnancy test first then you need someone to talk to. If you are not pregnant I want you to get yourself on birth control. Good luck.

 

Vanessa - July 23

Hello MKJ, you asked when you could have been fertile, usually were fertile around 12 and 17 days from the last time (first day of our last mentrual period) you bleed. You should get tested at home or at a clinic there are many clinics that are private and have free testing. All you have to do is remember your last period the first day and get a ride there. You are not alone if this website is too outthere you don't know who is giving what info and wether or not they now what there talking about find someone who can help you. personally. good luck too you, be safe always use rubbers..

 

kea - July 26

HI MKJ, PLEASE TRY AND STOP HAVING s_x, YOUR VERY SPECIAL RIGHT NOW, YOUR YOUNG AND JUST DONT KNOW HOW IMPORTANT YOUR SELF ESTEEM IS, IM SURE YOU THINK YOUR OLD ENOUGH, BUT TALK TO AN OLDER PERSON ABOUT THIS THAT YOU CAN TRUST, AND I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU!!!!

 

been there - July 26

I was you 20 years ago. Thank God I grew up, went to college and have a great Carreer. I was also Blessed by God for the fact that I did not get pregnant or contract any diseases. The years have given me a wonderful husband, two beautiful children and I life I am now proud of I still live with guilt and regret for my bahavior as a young teen. It is not too late for you to say no. You need to find an adult at home or at school that you can trust. Have a good check up by a doctor and start making smart choices. If you are active in church get active in the youth group. If not try to find one through friends or school councelors. You have a huge life ahead of you. If you find you are pregnanct I pray you choose adoption. There are so many wonderful people waiting to give a child a loving home. Good luck to you and God bless you.

 

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