Raising Baby On My Own

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feeling sad - April 27

im wondering what its like to raise a child alone.im with my babies dad now, but i dont feel its worth staying together for the baby. we dont get along and the baby is not here yet, i feel like i have no feelings for the guy. i dont know what to do and i feel like im going to go nuts. hes somewhat of a great guy wants to be here for the baby and all, i feel like i having a baby with the wrong guy

 

manda - April 27

I don't think you should stay with the dad just for the baby. It is hard raising a baby on your own. I'm raising my one year old daughter on my own. I work a 40 hour week. I tried to get back with my daughters dad but all's we do is fight. So here I am raising my little girl. all well. Good Luck

 

Amy - April 27

Oh boy do I know where you are coming from. My first childs father left me when I was 7 months pregnant. He left me for a girl that was pregnant with another guys baby. Good riddance. I was just fine on my own. If you have supportive people in your life you can get through anything. I was alone with my daughter until she was 2 years old. Now I am married to a wonderful man that she calls daddy and we are having another child in October. Don't worry everything will be alright. This guy probably is the wrong guy if you don't feel good about it. Dont worry, the right one will come along. Just think positively. I know that you and your baby will be fine. Do whats best for you. Good luck

 

Saydie - April 27

i am 22 and pregnant with my first chid, but i am the last of all of my friends to have a baby. one out of all of my friends that have kids, which is about 15 of them, has a dad that is still with her. about half of them the dad is still involed, they just aint together, and with most of them it is working out pretty good. but you have to look at what is goint to make you happy, if he dont, how would you give the baby a loving place to live if you are not happy with the father. you dont have to be with him for him to be a good dad. it might work out better that way if he really dont make you happy

 

April - April 27

You will be fine on your own if you feel it is better for you and your boyfriend to be seperated. Just remember that if you're not happy, your child will sense that. So it's better to be where you can be happy, than to stay together just for your child. But before you decide to leave, did you feel this way before you got pregnant? because it may just be the hormones and you may regret the breakup afterwards. Just take a long time to think about things, and decide what is best for you, and that will be best for your baby. You will do fine on your own, I'm sure, if that's the route you choose to go.

 

feeling sad - April 28

hi thx erry1 for your replys. i feel better hearing other ppls thoughts and experiences ,once again thank you all

 

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