Serious Question I Need Help

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Ashley - April 20

Ok i was raped in Feb. and i found out that i was pregnant. I have a fiance and were not sure if it is his or the guy that raped me. If its my fiances then i want to keep it, but if its the other guys i dont want to carry it for nine months because of the bad memories i have about how it became the other guys. someone please help me.


KC - April 20

Sorry to hear about your sitution. The best thing to do is go to the doc to see how far along you are to determine if it is you fiance or the other guy. Good luck


Maddie - April 20

God Bless you. You are so very fortunate to have your fiance for moral support during this situation. Try going with your gut feeling. This little person inside you has no say so in this situation, so keep the baby in mind. It's still your child. I could never preach on what to do, cause I don't know what I would do in that situation. Look to your fiance, and tell him all the emotions that your feeling. You are a brave, brave woman...keep the faith and stay strong girl!


Candy - April 20

That is a very hard situation. I would suggest speaking to someone in therapy. I don't know if they can tell for sure without knowing exact dates of when you had s_x and then I'm sure it'd still be a guess. Tuff decision. I don't know what I would do either. I personally don't believe in abortion for myself so I'd probably give it up for adoption if it wasn't my fiances. You do what your heart tells you to do and it'll lead you in the right direction.


Mellissa - April 20

Wow, what a tough situation...I'm not sure if they can tell if you get an amnio test done, but I would talk to you doctor about it. My suggestion to you is if you cannot find out whos baby it is until it is born, go through with the pregnancy because there is a good chance it could be your fiance's baby and it sounds like you don't want to abort it if it is his...but after you have the baby, and the father is the man who raped you and you don't want the baby, give him up for adoption, I mean, this is just my opinion but don't blame the baby, it is not his/her's the jerk who raped you, I hope everything works out for you...


RP - April 20




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