Who Might Be The Father

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jay730 - April 10

hey Ladies, I've just been thinking and asking people but they all seem to give me different answer. So I figure I'll come here and ask and hopefully get some asnwers. Well i had my period august 29th and didn't leave till around sept 3rd. but at the time i was messing around with someone and don't remember if we did anything around that time. well sept 5th i stopped talking to him and all. but then Sept 7th i got with someone whom im still with at the moment. well i know for sure the day i got my period aug 29th i did something with the guy that im with now. but i dont remember if i did anything with the ohter kid. which i dont think i did cuz i know we broke up sept. 5th and don't think i saw him around aug 29th till sept 5th. well sept 20th i got my period again. but my question is could i have gotten pregnant b4 or after september 20th? cause as of now my due date is june 27th but you know that's not always accurate.So if I did something with both of them around the same time then who might be the father? so what do ya ladies think? Help me out here cuz i dont know what to think?

 

Grandpa Viv - April 10

June 27th is your due date based on telling the doc your last period started Sept 20th. It would be from s_x the first week of October. If you had a first trimester ultrasound which confirmed the due date, you can quit worrying about the other guy. Good luck!

 

jay730 - April 10

Yeah my last period was sept. 20th. but the thing is I had a late u/s done. right about when i was about 23 weeks. so what to think? they asked me if it was a normal period and i said yes cause it was. they said so if it was then there was no way that i could've gotten pregnant b4 it had to be after the 20th. but i still dont know what to think. An I just worrying for no reason?

 

Grandpa Viv - April 10

I think you are worrying for no reason. When did you first start experiencing signs of pregnancy - about mid October, I would guess. If your baby comes a month earlier than expected and appears to be full term, you might have to re-think that, but I would be real surprised. Sleep tight!

 

jay730 - April 13

Yeah I do think I'm worrying for no reason. Well in mid oct.. I started to notice that I would sleep alot more, eat alot and I use to drink but then came alot of times when i wasn't able to cause it would just smell bad to me. Unlike b4. And I didn't find out I was pregnant till the end of Oct. When i took a home pregnancy test cause I notice how I wasn't getting my period. And I was gonna take one sooner but thought that my period was just gonna come late like other times. Alot of people ave told me that if i got my period that i dont have anything to worry about. cause it's not like I had my period through out the pregnancy. sept 20th was my acual lmp and after it went away just haven't gotten it anymore. But thanks for ur help. I appreciate. Take care!

 

jay730 - April 13

Anyone else has an opinion?

 

kimberly - April 16

You ovulated around Oct. 4th going by your lmp being 9-20. If you weren't with the other guy since Sept 5th atleast, the you are definately ok. June 27th is exactly 40 weeks from your lmp so your Dr.is still dating from that date, even after a ultrasound and still feels it is the right date so I think you are safe.

 

jay730 - April 16

Yeah that's what my doctor told me that i ovulated around the 3rd or 4th. i dont remember exactly what day they said but it;s either or. And like i mentioned aug 29th i did get my period and i did do something with the guy that im with now. But i dont know if i did something with the other guy that i was with and if i did it must of been around aug 31 and i know that sept 5th i broke up with him and prolly saw him once b4 we broke up which prolly was aug 31. and since the last time i saw him that was it i never really stood in contact with him cuz we werent together since the 5th and ever since then i've been only with the guy that i'm with now. so deep down inside i think im worrying for no reason. yeah june 27th is exactly 40 weeks and my doc didnt change the due date so it must be right? Cuz at my 1st u/s was done at 23 weeks yeah i waited so long cuz i had moved and still had to get all my paper work together and find a doc and all that. So at 23 weeks my baby was still about 1 pound so i figure its right. Cuz the normally say that the due date would chnage depending on how fast the baby is growing. Next week i go for a check up and imma find out when is my other u/s. But the other reason why i was concer is because i hear from alot of people that sometimes u can't go by ur lmp because it's not always accurate. So i guess that's why im also a lil confused. But do u think that at 23 weeks and u/s is still accurate? Cause they do say that the best time to get an u/s done is in the very begining cause that's when its most accurate. For instance one of my friend is pregnant and her lmp was sept 10th so therefore her due date should be june 17th but witht he u/s they said that her due date would be july 1st. could it be possible that she mistaken spoting with her period or that the baby is growing slower than usual? Well thanks Kimberly I feel alil more calm. I think I'm safe too it's just that my head be playing tricks on me i guess and ugh i hate it lol. It's tru what they say huh that pregnanct females worry too much. Take care and hope to hear from everyone soon!

 

kimberly - April 22

Ultrasounds are pretty acurate the earlier they are done, but it would be hard for it to be off by so many weeks. You weren't with the other guy since Sept. so there is a month gap in the dates. It would be very unlikely the ultrasound even at 20 weeks would be off a whole month. A week or two maybe but a month would be pretty noticable at 23 weeks, they grow really fast and form alot in 4 weeks early on.

 

alwaysthinking - April 22

I have a similar question.... I had s_x w/ Guy A Feb 16th, did not use protection, says he didn't "get off". Had period Feb. 18th. Period ended Feb. 23rd. Had s_x w/ Guy B March 6 and 7th. Did not use protection, he ejaculated inside me. According to a normal 28 day cycle, I would have been ovulating the week i was with guy B (march 1-7). Took pregnancy test on March 10th.=negative result. Missed period on March 18th. Took pregnancy tests on March 22, and March 23. All were positive. Which guy would this baby belong to?

 

jay730 - April 22

Thanks kimberly for your help. I'm pretty sure I'm just worring too much for no reason. What you said made alot of sense.

 

jay730 - April 22

hi Always, how are? I wish i can help u answer that but i'm the one who posted the question up so u know im just as confused as u are. but my friend send me this website earliar today and the info was kind of helpful but it didnt exactly answer my question. so i went all the way to the bottom of the page and i e mailed them. and i asked them. so most likely by tomorrow i should have an answer. and if i do i'll let u know. but you should try it and let me know what they reply. hope it helps a little. wish you the best! imma send it to u by a msg cause i tired posting it through here and it wouldnt let me

 

jay730 - April 22

Sorry Always I thought this was like this other website that I also be on, in which i can leave sepearte e mails. I guess not. well let me know if u have a screen name in which i can get in contact with you and send u the e mail add through there.

 

firerose78 - April 28

Always thinking it would be guy b and Jay it would be the second guy you were with no doubt on those both going by your dates you have given.

 

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