Pregnant Girlfriend Hates Me And Keeps On Pushin Me Away

5 Replies - June 16

This pregnancy was not planned,however we were very happy and planned our wedding when we found out she was pregnant,I bought her the engagement ring and everything was happiness and joy,until the 10th week,she became totally EVIL and CRAZY towards me,she said she did not feel like talking to me anymore and she did not love me!,she works out of town in different cities of the US and I have not seen or talked to her in 3 months(i just text her to see how she is doing,thats all she wants) because she says she does not want anything with me,she wont send me a pic of the baby's ultrasound and says I dont have any rights on the baby because I only put one sperm and she is the one doing all the work on this pregnancy,says she wants to be a single mom and wants the baby all for herself,she even picked the name w/o consulting me!,she decided she is going to give birth at the state she lived before but told me that I could see my baby whenever i want to,she is now 23 weeks and it looks that as pregnancy goes on she becomes more irrational,all this is breaking me in pieces i just dont know what to do!,before the pregnancy we had a great relationship in all aspects and she was very sweet and loving,we were first bf/gf we have been really close since we were little kids and I just don't understand why shes acting like this now?I love her and I want to be with my baby when she is born(btw we are having a baby girl)but she keeps pushing me away and doing and saying things that I really dont deserve because I"ve been very supportive,to the point of give her money for maternity clothes,flowers on her bday and all I get is rejection and hate from her!Could anyone that has been through this impart some words of wisdom?Am I ever gonna see that sweet,caring and loving girl that I had before,are this the hormones?Help please!


notamused21 - July 8

I have to say first of all that you have rights to that baby too if it turns out to be yours. Secondly, if she is acting that irrationally, either you did something you weren't supposed to, or her hormones are way out of check. I am a female currently 23 weeks pregnant and I can say that I have b__wn things out of the water a little more than I should have once or twice, but never to the point where I would just leave and say I want to raise a baby by myself. If there is lack of communication between you two on her part, well there is not much you can do. Legally though you do have rights. If you are innocent like you say you are and she is acting this way for no apparent reason, I would suggest taking her to court to have an order put in for her to be medically evaluated. That is the only other explanation to her acting that wildly about all of this. I just don't understand how one person can go from being nice, caring, and loving to completely hating you over nothing at all. It has to be something more than that or she has some mental condition that needs treatment.


Brandon02 - February 6

Hello. I am new here and have my own situation that I will post on this page when I can write it. But for now ive been reading this other page so hopefully you can look through it and release some stress. I will come back to this post and we can keep this thread going, as the other one has over 30 pages. Seems that alot of us are going through the same sort of thing but all have different experiences.


Brandon02 - February 6

I also see that the posts are from july last year. And am now wondering how it all played out?


rusorico - June 7



E457 - August 23

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