WANTANOTHER WOW congrats times one million i am so glad you got the positive! and i am due july 24th and you aug 24th thats just kinda funny!! its nice though cuz now i have someone i "know" to talk to about it, rather than trying to get to know new people-phew! I hope everything is well with it, you are in my thoughts, i am more positive about mine, knowing alexa will have a playmate, and someone to grow up with!! And so will joe! And Alexa does that scream too, a high pitch hurt your ears pierce through a headache scream... she does it when she is playing and gets super excited or when she is upset and wants attention but she has always done it when upset she just started to do it when she gets excited, she also scrunches up her face and snorts when she gets excited, its so cute...
BUFFI- I love SIL's kids, please dont mistake that, i know i came off harsh that night i was so upset i could barely think. They are my god kids, and her oldest is just the sweetest thing you could ask for, the poor thing is seriously neglected so she loves attention. So i didn't mind her playing with Alexa's stuff, shes careful and just wanted something for herself (of course I knew they would so I bought goodie bags full of actual toys for the kids cuz i figured they would be there) We are going through so much right now, its hard to stay sane... I have just gotten the report on my mother and it turns out her progress is come to a dead stand still, she has made no progress in the past week, and the insurance company says she has 1 week left at the rehab to make some kind of progress or they are going to have to move her to a nursing home, which is a good thing kinda cuz that means she will be close to me, like 15 minutes away compared to the 4 hours away she is now. Her condition is this : she has NO short term memory, tell her something and 1 minute later she forgets it, but everything before the coma she remembers, she just still thinks it october, she is very depressed thinking everyone is trapping her in the hospital, so she cries alot. She is still eating ground up food, she cannot eat anything that isn't ground up. and she is still unable to know when she needs to use the bathroom, so she messes herself nonstop. they are trying hard to teach her to use the bathroom before she gets sent to the nursing home, but since she cant walk on her own at all, they dont think they will be able to. they have tried and tried to get her to be able to walk alone or sit up, and she cannot manage either without a lot of help and support. Dh is hopeful that in a year or so maybe her brain can fully repair itsself, but me, i am losing hope, its like a roller coaster, and Im getting exhausted from the ups and downs. I feel so bad for my brother, to have lost his mom at only 18. I know she is still alive, but when you think about it, she could watch him graduate and in 5 minutes she would forget what just happened, and wouldn't remember it. He is putting on a great front though, trying not to show how he feels...and right now seriously rebelling, since my stepfather is never home and my lil brother is left all alone for weeks on end, he just goes and does whatever he wants... but he is 18, so legally he can. I have offered him several times to come here for dinner or to hang out, and he knows he can bring his friends (i actually like his friends they look funny but they are great kids) (my brother and his friends dress in the baggy jeans with chains, and big huge concert tees with tons of piercings and long hair, but they arent goth or emo, they just aim to be different lol) but the kids are all really sweet and you can tell they all have good families and are raised well they just want to stand out and be their own person.
Phew I have gone on and on, other than that, there is really nothing new, i am sick everyday all day, except for late at night around 2am, i usually end up making something small to eat and eat in bed...lol last night we went to MIL for our normal sunday night dinner but i couldn't eat so i brought my plate home...and last night i took a cornigh game hen and some soy sauce and a drink into bed and sat and ate, lol dh came walking in after his shower and just shook his head...lol the night before i made him get up at 2:30 with me to eat mac and cheese...lol and today i am having him bring me home tacos, i have been dying for tacos!! I am sure dh is just so happy to be back in the honey get for me part of life (pergnancy lol) i used to call him everyday at work when i was pregnant with alexa begging him to bring me orange soda, water and a slurpee, and sour candies...lol and now he is back in the pick up everything role.
well i better go, lil miss will be up from her nap soon, I will try to get on piczo and update sometime, we have great pics from her bday, she LOVES her ball pit! She didn't quite understand opening gifts, but the small bits of paper she did tear she enjoyed, lol and i spent the past 2 weeks teaching her to b__w only to have her freeze up at the candle on her cake, and refuse to even try lol so her godmom blew it out for us while taking amazing pictures, it was so wonderful to have her and her husband there, she took a lot of the pics for us, so we could be in them and she got amazing shots! Alexa also got a lot of barbies, which we will hold on to till she is older to play with, and black and decker toy tools which she doesn't understand fully but loves to share with her daddy, she picks one up, gives it to him, then takes it back.... OHHH one more thing, at the party SIL son kept taking something from alexa it was a toy pot or something, so she grabbed it from him and whacked him on the head 3 times in a row... it didn't hurt him, but he cried cuz he was upset that she took the toy, the worst part was that everyone laughed... because they knew why she did it, and I know that is bad but that is how she is, when she gets upset she shows it, so i guess our new project is to teach her you dont hit people. it was just so amazing to see though, i mean we have no hitting or anything in my house so she isn't exposed to that but for some reason she just snatched that toy, and whacked him 3 times in a row right on the head with it, then put the pot down and turned back to her new toys. Weird. ah well, i hear a certian lil miss in her crib playing with her toys, (we keep a few small stuffed animals in there for her to play with when she is going to bed or when she first gets up and she will play with them for 10-15 minutes or so before she calls to be gotten out) and since we just changed out the toys that were in there with new toys she likes to stay longer and play with em, its so cute to listen to her talk to them.... she just babbles away perfectly content. Well ladies, hope everyone had a good weekend, i gotta get done and send dh a text to get me some TACOS!!! and then get lil miss up...