How Often For Sex

43 Replies
jessb - February 9

Thank god I am not alone. For a while there we were only having s_x about 2 times a month. IN the last 10 weeks though, I have lost 23 pounds,so I feel s_xier and am in the mood more often. And DH seems to be more attracted to me. This month is has probably already been about 4 times!!!!!! (wow)


Renea - February 9

I'm with Danielle---what is s_x?! Since the baby and already having 3 other kids, I am just exhausted at the end of the day. Dh is pooped from working too. He would love to have once a week, but knows that isn't going to happen. Realistically--anywhere from 1-3 times a month.


lin7604 - February 9

maybe when ds is sleping through the night i won't be so tired and i will make more time for it, and maybe i will have the desire back.


spamanda - February 9

USMC wife and ashtynsmom, I'm with you! lol DH is always after me (and I'm after him too, shhhhhh....) We make sure we have time, at least twice a week. Going without for a few weeks after the babe was born was torture for both of us!


jilly01 - February 9

Well I can say we squeeze it in when we can, nap time right after she falls asleep, sometimes right in the middle of something, we don't want the s_x life to suffer. plus it's a fun game!!! it ends being about 3-4 times a week


Selena - February 9

2-3 times week we try and get frisky. Sometimes dd wakes up and then the moment is lost! I can't imagine having s_x only once a month! Not to be to offensive but don't you worry that your marriages/relationships will suffer?? I am a mombut also a woman and I still very much enjoy my husband!


mosley12 - February 9

we average 5-6x a week...quickies are the best!


sahmof3 - February 9

Selena... it gets really hard when you have mulitple kids, work 1/2 the night and have older kids who are always around lol.


Mellissa - February 9

it's usually every other night for us... but only if we both feel like it. sometimes we go a couple days in between.


shelly22 - February 9

s_x, whats that? LOL. I work full time and go to school, hubby works full time and goes to school full time. AND we have a 1 year old, do I need to say more.....


Rabbits07 - February 9

We go in spurts. Sometimes it may be once a week or even once every 2 weeks ....the past month or so it has been everyday. No wonder I'm so tired!


flower.momma - February 10

We try for at least one "love-making" a week, and usually have 2 or 3 quickies a week after the kids go to bed. Used to be every day, but having 2 babies changes that. My hubby thought he had it bad at only 3 times a week, but I just had him read this thread. Thanks for backing me up ladies!


Erin1979 - February 10

Wow ladies. I am so glad that I am not alone. Dh always complains. His once a week doesn't sound too bad now. you ladies who are doing it more, good for you!! I don't know how you do it!(I won't let dh read thoses posts!! haha)


ash2 - February 10

Its more about once a week for the deed, and oral s_x for him about the same...once a week.


Shea - February 10

Well I would say 3-4 times a month, but dh always has to have "followup s_x" the next morning, so that doubles my #, lol. BTW, I hate followup s_x b/c I am usually half asleep still.


AnytimeLittleone - February 10

Before I found out I was pregnant... usually 2ce a week. Now that Im pregnant again, and taking care of a 6 month old, poor dh isnt getting any s_x at all until I sort out some medical issues. I try to relieve him in other ways though... he'll be very glad when he can have s_x again, he keeps attacking me!



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