Okay Opinion Question

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pinkbo0tlace - January 21

My ex (DS dad) who I wrote about being a nut case (LOL!) smokes pot..a lot. He says he is cutting down and so has his girlfriend...BUT......just not too long ago, within the last week in a half, he has told me that he has tried Meth and has snorted Oxycontin. Now, why he would tell ME...the mother of his child I have no clue, I really don't think he is lost. LOL. He told me that I am the only one he has told, so if he hears it back he will know I was the one that opened my mouth. Anyways, so I told his sister who told her mother (who btw hates me for not getting the abortion her son wanted) who SAID she was going to call Alan up ASAP and get him into treatment....NEVER happend and I doubt ever will. His other family members are starting to suspect he is on drugs. Should I tell one of his close family members? (he doesn't live with his mother) or do you think it probably was just experimenting? Or would you just say who cares, he will get caught on his own time? (since I decided to totally cut ties after what he did to me at K-Mart) Lemme know! Thanks!


pinkbo0tlace - January 21

oops i ment i really think he is lost* lol


apr - January 21

I dont see why you have to care what he's doing. you're not living with him now, so y should you care what he's doing to himself. I'd say just leave him and forget about him. As for your son, you can tell him that you dont want him around that kind of stuff...


pinkbo0tlace - January 21

okay, yeah maybe i will just let him hang himself.


Lisastar9 - January 21

Leave it alone. I wander why to feels compelled to tell you what he is doing.


pinkbo0tlace - January 21

me too! Like, If I was gunna be going around doing stuff like that - the last person I want to know is the other parent!


Kara H. - January 21

Technically I don't think anyone can MAKE you go into treament unless you are willing. I would just stear clear of of him and his family. You don't need toxic people in your life.


torbman - January 21

I would say that your priorities should just stay with your baby and that moniter the time with them together. It would only cause you more heartache in the long run I think. If others suspect he is on drugs already then let those close to him figure it out.He sounds like he likes to start stuff anyways and in the long run it looks like your chasing him. I would leave him and when he asks to see the baby then only deal with him them. I would have nothing to do with him either. Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. Just my opinion. Take care of yourself and babes. :)


pinkbo0tlace - January 21

thank you ladies :) how is everyone doing?


Rabbits07 - January 21

I agree with Kara. You can't help someone who doesn't want it. I have numerous friends who have been caught with drugs, etc. and had to do court ordered rehab and they were doing drugs again the day after they were released. So long as he doesn't have ds in his sole care (and I don't think he does, right?) I would just let things take their own course.


hello - January 22

I hope u are over him, thats what i want to say... how do we love guys like this? Let him be and i agree with you, let him hang himself... focus your energy and attention elsewhere...... as long as its not your problem.... how r u going to stop him seeing his child, here in aus unfortunately we arent allowed too so i allow my daughters dad to see her out of sufference really...good luck



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