Would You Let Dd Pose For Playboy From The Hubby Dil Pst

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luviduvi - March 3

For those of you you say there is nothing wrong with p___n and naked ladies or that your dh has no prob. w/ it and has ways to justify would you let your dd pose for magazines or the internet or get into the p___n industry? I mean, if you say that it is no big deal and that it means nothing for dh to look at it then is it a big deal for your dd to do it when becoming the legal age? That is how dh and I make judgements in our home. Would you be okay with dd or ds doing this? Do you understand my point? I am not trying to make anyone angry I am just trying to make people think. I don't EVER think that it would be okay for dd to pose or participate in these things nor would I be okay for ds to LOOK at these things and if that is not okay then dh looking and watching it is NOT okay!!!

 

luviduvi - March 3

I hope I don't make anyone mad here. I just think this nudity and p___n industry has a lot to do with what is wrong with our world and why hubby and wifes cheat and why children get out of control and grow up b4 their time. I am not saying that dh hasn't been to a strip club for a bach party or that I haven't either, just trying to raise some views....Rosie O'Donell eat your heart out!!! NOTE: I was not discussing kiddie p___n in original post...those persons should be sent straight to hell......I am discussing our children when they become the legal age. Thank you...........

 

Nerdy Girl - March 3

Well, this is not a black and white issue... there are shades of gray. Well-respected people like Cindy Crawford have done gorgeous tasteful pictorials in Playboy but never in a million years would appear in a p___no. They are two totally different things. And I would feel very differently if my daughter grew up to be a supermodel versus if she grew up to be a p___n star.

 

luviduvi - March 3

Nerdy Girl.....I do agree with you on that. I think some people can do it with taste. I was just responding mostly to the naked lady website mentioned in the last post and used "playboy" in the t_tle just for grabs and mere lack of a better word...

 

CyndiG - March 3

Obviously, when my dd is of legal age, if she wanted to do it, she would. BUT, I am raising her in a Christian home, to have modesty in her actions and her dress, that s_x is a sacred act reserved only for marriage, and that she is a daughter of the King therefore she should act like it. Those morals and beliefs, I believe with ALL my heart, will determine her actions when she is an adult. So to answer your question, no, I would not be ok with her to doing that, but I honestly believe that she would fall back on her raising and would never do it.

 

luviduvi - March 3

Just so you know all, and I don't think I put it well in the t_tle, this comes from the Hubby dilemma post. Cyndi, I too plan on raising my daughter in such a way, I was just making a form of a reb___tle to the women on the other thread that either seemed not sure of how they felt or to the ones that dh's saw no harm in it......that is all. Like I said just so us ladies would think...I am actually thinking of my own post as well.

 

luviduvi - March 3

Did I say that right?

 

CyndiG - March 3

You did.

 

HannahBaby - March 3

If my daughter wanted to pose for playboy. First off, I could only give her my feelings and opinions because if shes being offered it, she will be 18. I would not be upset with her if she was going to pose in PLAYBOY. I have seen a few and they are always very tasteful. I however, would NOT approve if my daughter wanted to be a p___n star and take hard core pictures. I dont want to say that i like p___n, because i dont LIKE it. But i have watched it with hubby and i dont really have anything against it (once again, except for the hard core woman degrating p___n) If my daughter is legal age, she is old enought to make her own decisions. As long as she is not degrading herself (and i DONT consider play boy degrading) then i would want her to do what makes me happy. I watch the girls next door on E! I think that they are all beautiful girls and take the most beautiful tasteful pictures. I do not have any issues with nudity. Im not saying that i would take her to the playboys manchine myself, but i wouldent give her a hard time if she was to pose for playboy

 

AnytimeLittleone - March 3

Ok, I must be very odd, but I honestly see nothing wrong if my daughter came to me, and was over 18 years of age, and told me she wanted to pose in playboy. I did naked modelling when I was a model in my late teens and early 20's... and it really isnt a big deal. Id support my daughter in any endeavor she wished to persue...

 

luviduvi - March 3

NO, NO, NO!!! My t_tle is all wrong......Like I said to Nerdy Girl, Playboy was in lack of a better word.......this is a spin off to from the hubby dilemma thread about the dh who was looking at naked women on the internet.......wish I wouldn't have posted this now.

 

AnytimeLittleone - March 3

And I completely agree with Hannahbaby.... Hard core p___n is completely different than playboy, or something else tasteful.

 

Hana - March 3

So this means that any1 who watches violent films wouldn't mind offspring taking part in a shooing spree? So just coz i allow dh to watch p___n doesn't mean I woulnt mind dd/dh staring in p___n..its the difference between reality (dd staring) and fantasy (dh not acting just watching)...does that make sense? It does in my head lol

 

AnytimeLittleone - March 3

Luviduvi.... are you asking... would I be ok with my daughter posing naked, and having men look at her? Isnt that the purpose of posing naked? To have men look at you (whether its playboy, online, art cla__ses, hard core p___n... etc?)

 

luviduvi - March 3

Oh, also, it probably wouldn't bother me as much as it would dh about playboy.... he would have a heart attack! It was just a round about question for the ladies who didn't know how to tell their dh's that looking at nudity and p___n bothered them. So, that is what I mean't.

 

luviduvi - March 3

Anytimelittleone...yes, I understand the purpose of posing naked, and no, I wouldn't want my daughter to do it. I would want my daughter to keep herself in a private manner. More so than I ever did heehee. Also, Hana, a movie about a shooting spree is acting wheras someone staring in a p___no film is more than just acting.

 

Hana - March 3

How is it more than acting if its just p___n? And if it is more than acting then its their choice in getting into this industry and there is consent. (ps- i dont like p___n:)

 

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