I Just Miscarried Can I Get Pregnant So Soon

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cassiemb - September 26

Hi everyone. I went through a miscarriage August 31 through the next day. This was the hardest experience of my life. We lost our baby on my birthday. Happy Birthday to me right. My doctor gave me medication to further the miscarriage along so that I would not have to have a D&C. Thankfully it worked. This happened at 8weeks. We are hoping to become pregnant again very soon. I have read a lot of conflicting information when it comes to how soon you can concieve. It has been over 3 weeks. Is it wrong of me to hope that I am pregnant already? I guess I just need someone to tell me that it's OK to wish for a healthy pregnancy so soon. My heart aches when I see expectant mothers. My sister-in-law just recently had to move in with us for a few month and she has a 4 month old baby girl. I love them, but having them there is so very hard for me. When I see my niece sleeping in the room that was supposed to be the nursery, it makes me want to cry. I find myself going back and forth from sadness to anger. Sometimes I just want to screem at God, and ask him why he had to take my baby. People say that everything happens for a reason, and maybe thats true but it doesn't take the pain away. I feel like the only thing that can do that is for me to know that I have a healthy baby on the way. Any reasurance that y'all could offer would be greatly appreciated.


AnxiouslyWaiting - September 26

I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks in September 2004. My doctor strongly adviced that I wait two cycles which we did and we immediately got pregnant with a beautiful baby girl who is 2 now. I recently had a chemical pregnancy earlier this month that ended at 5 1/2 weeks. I would take the advice of your doctor. If he'she says go for it, then go for it. It also depends how high your HCG was at the time of the m/c. The the count, the longer it'll take to come back down and you won't ovulate until your count hits 0. But once it does you will be extremely fertile those couple of days following your HCG hitting 0. Best of luck. I think we'll wait a little before trying again. And I know what you mean about the pain. One of my dear friends is pregnant and we were supposed to be pregnant together. She's from Monterrey, Mexico so she asks me a lot of insurance questions and stuff since she is a legal Texas Resident. Sometimes it's so hard not to break down, but she never thinks (I guess) that it would bother me.


tryin44 - September 26

I had a tubal pregnancy four weeks to the day I found out I was again pregnant with my now 23 month old daughter. I hadn't even had a cycle yet.


ca__siemb - September 27

At the time of my mc my hcg was at around 14,000. how quickly does it come back down?



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