Would Like Some Advice

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New_mum - July 8

I'm not sure if this is were I should put this question, as I'm new here; but I definitely have a problem and am unsure of what to do... My boyfriend and I just recently found out that I'm pregnant; we already have a 3 year old (not biologically his, but he's been there since day one more or less) whom we love dearly; and we just moved to a different city. He's been having issues finding work; and I'm going to college and only working part time. The problem is; he doesn't want to have any more children right now, and would like me to have an abortion. I personally do not believe in abortion, and feel like if I were to do that I would be going against my values and beliefs. I don't want him to slowly resent me for keeping a baby he very clearly does not want, but I don't want to do something I will regret in the future. I know for a fact I can emotionally and mentally handle another child...but I do not believe I could handle doing what he is asking me to do. I'm super confused and am unsure of what to do. He has many reasoning's behind not wanting to have a child, the biggest one is money. Were not bad off, but were not perfect either. I know he would never leave me, no matter what I decide, but I feel like I only have two option keep the baby and have him hate me; or don't keep it, and hate myself... Anyone have any advice?

 

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