2 Losses In 1 Year

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cnjlynn - December 1

I had a miscarriage in Jan and had a d&c. I got pregnant again in early march. I just delivered my son last week and he was a stillborn. Any advice?

 

stefkay - December 1

Oh, my....cnjlynn I'm so very sorry for your loss...I can't even imagine. Did the doctor's tell you anything at all about WHY he was stillborn? Were there any complications or is there going to be testing or autopsy or something? Until you know what happened it is impossible to say if it is something that may happen again or if it is a terrible fluke. More likely than not, it was just something horrible that happened and would never happen again. I would push for answers...

 

cnjlynn - December 2

The doctor said everything we both me and baby looked perfect. there were not any complications the second pregnancy and they did an autopsy but we have not got the results back yet

 

karyn - December 4

My heart goes out to you cnjlynn. I'll had two losses and know how devestating it can be. It really helps if you can talk to people who understand, like on this forum. Give yourself time to grieve and heal. When I had my first loss, my husband brought home two kittens from the local shelter. It gave me an opportunity to transfer some of the love I had saved up for my child to them. I also think it saved my sanity. This might not be right for you but wanted you to know there are ways to get through this.

 

abi_77 - December 4

I am so sorry for your loss. Get all the testing done, chromosome testing, TORCH screen etc etc. Rule out any thing that might cause a problem with pregnancy from your side. Then try for another.

 

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