For J From Julie

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Julie - May 5

THought we would start another thread here. When did you m/c? How far along? DH and I were about 5 weeks. The weekend we choose to tell the family was during the same week we m/c. It stinked because no-one knew and it was like our own private h__l. My cousin (who I am very close to) is due in August. I am happy for her, but it's hard. I am hoping that it happens this month. We only started trying in Feb, but I had to talk dh into it for over a year so it feels like I have wanted this forever.

 

Kathy Z. - May 5

Hi Julie, I m/c on 5/22 (11 wks pg) and I'm still waiting for af to show! The wait is driving me crazy! We've been ttc, but I don't think I've ovulated, because I haven't had any positive opks. Had bloodwork yesterday to see if my hcg level is back down to zero. I'm going nuts just waiting for something to happen! Good luck to you!!

 

J - May 5

I had my m/c on march 20 I was ten weeks along it has been so hard. We are trying again and praying that everything will go ok! I am very sorry for your loss. lets keep each other posted on everythong ok?

 

Julie - May 5

Kathy Z- It's crazy right. The waiting for the period is agonizing. Let me also say I apoligize for your loss. 11 weeks was far along. I hope you get pg right away too. I have been looking at the signs of preganacy board and there are so many people reporting BFP today. I got to tell you Kathy when I did finally get my period I was so happy. It was weird but I felt like I can move on now. Do you find yourself worrying alot about your next preganancy? I do and it is making my DH crazy. I just got to relax I guess but after that experience and reading some of the posts you worry. You know what I mean.

 

Julie - May 5

J- 10 weeks that was far along. Hopefully the 3 of us will be on the 1st trimester board in a few weeks.

 

J - May 5

yes I hope so too!!!!!

 

Julie - May 5

Well Kathy is waiting for Af, J have you gotten yours yet? It really is a relief when it does show up. Dh and I were good at the begining of April (right after the m/c). Good meaning that we were going to wait for AF for one month. Then DH went away on business (he was gone for 4 days) right around the time I was O'ing, which is also when I was thinking--should we wait for AF. Almost as if God wanted us to wait or something. Weird right.

 

J - May 5

julie, I had af three weeks ago, I have been feeling strange I dont know if I am getting ready for af again or maybe I am pregnant. My chest is sore I am very tired but like I said it could be af. I was thinking of getting a test tonight what do you think?

 

Julie - May 5

J- Go for it. HOw many days pa__sed Ovulation are you?

 

J - May 5

im not sure. my cycle has always been kind of messed up so its hard to say. I think I will get a test, I will let you know what I find out.

 

Julie - May 5

Test with first morning Pee tomorrow morning for the best results. Let me know what happens tomorrow. I am crossing my fingers, toes, and all that you get your BFP.

 

J - May 5

Thanks julie!!!

 

CJ - May 5

I had m/c about 2 weeks ago @ 10 weeks along. Today is especially hard for me because my first ultrasound was scheduled for today and I was so excited for this day for months. Now it's finally here and it's so sad!

 

Julie - May 5

CJ- I know how you feel. I had my m/c March 21 and my first appointment with the OBGYN would of been April 20th. I had it marked on the calendar and everything. It's the worst. Keep your chin up girl, God willing you'll have another appointment for a U/S that will come and leave you elated.

 

J - May 5

My due date was oct 17. That was the day my father pa__sed away in 1994. dont you think that is strange? now he is in heaven with my precious baby.

 

Kathy Z. - May 6

Hi girls...af has finally arrived today, almost 7 weeks after m/c! I never thought I could be so happy about having af! I finally feel like I can move on now, and I'm so excited to ttc this cycle! I usually have long cycles, around 35 days, so I probably won't O for another 3 weeks. I'm sure I'll be peeing on a lot of opks until then! CJ - I know how you feel...I had 4 months worth of u/s scheduled, and everytime I flipped the calendar I would see another one. It was so hard! Next time I don't think I'll make so many appts. ahead of time. Baby dust and hugs to everyone!

 

Julie - May 6

Kathy Z-- Congrats on AF (sounds weird to say on a pregnancy forum). It's a good feeling isn't it. I was so happy last week when I got mine. So we're back on the TTC block. I have long cycles to (40 days). Looks like we will be O'ing around the same time. My DH says we have to get our pratice in now.

 

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