Going Thru MC As We Speak

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MamaHarms - March 11

All, I need some graphic advice......I don't really know what to expect. I am pretty sure I am having a miscarriage right at this moment. My doctor told me (somewhat) what to expect. She said a heavy period....but I am hurting pretty bad...I am currently 8 weeks along. I'm scared every time I go into the bathroom expecting to see something I don't want to see. I have an appointment tomorrow, but I'm thinking that this is going to be overwith by tomorrow. I'm so devistated!!!! I can't stop crying. Please help.


beckett - March 11

i was about 71/2 weeks along when i miscarried and it was extremely painful. i felt the same way about going to the bathroom too... that horrible feeling in the pit of your stomach. i'm so sorry your going through this, it's the worst. don't try to stop crying just yet... it's been over a month for me and i still cry at least a little everyday. i think it's healthy to let it out and it will get better. i know that doesn't seem possible right now and i don't think it will ever stop hurting completely, but you will feel better than you do right now. talk to who ever you can, when ever you can and just let yourself grieve. i wish i had more to offer, but i'm here if you want to talk.


toshi - March 11

I know how you feel. I miscarried naturally in December of 07. I was 11 weeks along. I can't begin to fully describe the pain. I expelled most of it while in the ER. The next day, while I was at home recovering, i got such a painful cramp that I couldn't make it to the bathroom. I was doubled over in pain. I started urinating on myself and the next thing I knew, there was this large liver looking clot coming out of me. I think it was the remainder of the placenta. It was so painful. I know it's hard to believe now, but the pain will end. I still think back to that month and I can't believe its been almost three months. Just pray that it will be over soon. Allow yourself to heal physically and emotionally. I still find myself crying at times but it's getting better. I wish you the best.



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