Just Can T Get Over It

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SMB - May 11

Why is that I just get get over the loss. I found out I was pregnant on Vanlentine's Day. BF and I weren't trying. I was on the pill and it happend in error. 2 weeks later, I miscarried. I am so sad all the time. I put on a hoppy face for the world but deep down I'm dying. I don't understand how something that I never planned and lost, can affect me so deeply, I only knew that I was pregnant for 2 weeks when I lost the baby. It's been almost 3 months and I still cry. Please tell me that I am not the only one who feels this.


prete - May 11

SMB: You are not alone. It does not matter that you only knew you were pregnant for two weeks, it is still a loss and you are allowed to grieve. And I still cry over my loss (which was 5 months ago, I was 7 weeks). If you are still feeling bad all the time though, you should probably see if you can find a counselor or someone to talk to face to face. It is helpful to know there are women who understand you and feel the same type of pain (you are not alone) and that is why this board is so great. But if you are going into a serious depression, you need to seek help as soon as possible.


CRISY - May 11

Hi SMB: I am so sorry for what happened to you. I miscarried on April 25th and I know the feeling of being lost and being dead inside. Please remember that you are not alone. we are all here to write to you if you feel sad. It take time to heal your wounds and it's important to talk about your loss. Everyone has a different grieving process. I wish that I could take your pain away. I know exactly how you feel. Have you tried writing a letter for the baby that you lost? Or planting a tree or saying a prayer? I planted a rosebush on Sunday in the memory of my baby. It has helped me a lot and I was able to say googbye. I will think of you and say a prayer for you. This was my first pregnancy as well. Keep hope and keep in touch.


Amy - May 11

You are definetely not the only one that feels that way hon. I miscarried in November of 2004 and I am still devistated by it. I also was not trying to get pregnant..I used protection everytime..It was just something that was meant to happen I guess..I only knew that I was pregnant for a few days when I was told that I had miscarried, but it being such a short time didn't make the pain any more bearable. Just remember that your time will come and I'm sure that you will have a wonderful outcome the next time. Try to stay positive...I know it's hard but you've gotta try...I wish you the best of luck.


SMB - May 11

Thanks guys..... Your warm wishes mean so much to me.



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