Mc Sunday Till Dnc Monday Lots Of Questions

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sososleepy - February 1

Hi ladies. I'm really sorry you're here too, and really hopeful someone is out there tonight... MC was Sunday through dnc Monday afternoon (ouch). Doc had me schedule to see him in 2 weeks, then office called yesterday wanting to see me tomorrow for "follow up". Called again today, unfortunately got the same gal and no more info from her. Take total misery with grief, add paranoia and fear. Why did he make the appointment over a week earlier unless something from dnc came back from lab freaky wrong? Opinions? It's hard to imagine worse than losing this pregnancy, which I did, but I'm really really worried now. My imagination is racing... someone have a direction I can at least research? Otherwise I think I'm dealing with it well... random tears, went back to work 2n day after dnc... I am really concerned about my husband. He's fabulous with me, so very careful, but I know this is killing him and he hasn't cried. Do guys do that?

 

sososleepy - February 1

and could someone please tell me what ttc is?

 

stefkay - February 2

Hi! I posted on the other thread, but I'm thinking not to worry too much about the dr's office calling. It might be a good thing that they are trying to see what went wrong? It seems there are a lot of dr.'s who just pa__s women off once they miscarry and don't do much to see why. I've just had my 4th and finally they are doing testing. The results from the fetus won't be back for a couple of weeks still (I see the dr. on feb 23rd), so it just waiting waiting waiting....As for the men, I don't know either! mine is just extra cautious with me, but I think he is handling it in his own way. I actually think he is used to it now and like me, half expected me to m/c. It's sad, but I just felt off from the beginning, but at the same time I can say i had a lot of hope...does that make ANY sense at all? lol...please post and let us know how wthe dr's appt goes! {HUGS}

 

stefkay - February 2

"trying to conceive"... :-)

 

sososleepy - February 2

Thanks stefkay. I found out today that they sent the dnc leftovers to the lab (thought so, but they never told me they would...) The absence of chorionic villi in the curettage (they found no baby stuff, nor the cells that go down into the lining of the uterus where the baby attaches) made the lab put down ectopic as the pathology result. So the doc felt for lumps in the tubes ect. and drew blood to check for dropping hgc. I can't imagine that it was a tubal as those present with pain before 9 weeks from what I've read, but I'm still trying to find good sites to understand the other possibilities. I really don't know what to think any more. I'm guessing that that part just all came out before I got to the dnc and everything will be as ok as it can be right now, but doc's unsure enough to keep testing... lindsie thanks for the defs on the terms. I hope you have great luck getting pg again soon. stefkay, yes, it completely makes sense. I never felt right either, but my other 2 were a decade ago so it was hard to compare. Now I'm wanting to ttc again as soon as I can because I'm getting older and it's more scary now, particularly after this. Thanks for the hugs, you too!

 

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