My Husband Doesn T Want To Try Again Yet But I Do

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musiclover - December 6

Hi my names Gloria. Both my husband and I are marines. A little over 3 weeks ago I had to have a d&e because my baby didn't have a heartbeat when I went in for my first ultrasound at 10 weeks. I've had a hard time with it but I've decided that I want to try again. My husband is going to iraq in february and I really want to get pregnant before he leaves but he doesn't want to. I don't understand! I thought that I was the one that was supposed to have a hard time deciding to try again not him! I'm just completely torn apart. What do you guys think that I should do?! What could I say to him that would help him be more confortable with the idea. Cause I think he's afraid of something going wrong again but the doctor said the chances of that are very slim. Thank you for listening to me and your responses.

 

abi_77 - December 6

Hi Gloria, I am sorry for your loss. You have to talk to him openly about your thoughts. If he is absolutely positive about not wanting to have a baby right now, you should give him some time. It is also good for you to wait for at least one cycle before you try again.

 

ashleigh1008 - December 15

i know exactley how you feel!!! my dr couldn't find a fetal hearbeat at 10 weeks. i wanted to try again right away, but my husband did not want to try again. i was devistated.but, i just gave him time, and he didn't need much, because two months later, and he's ready to try again. i'm very sorry about your miscarriage.

 

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