Need Your Help

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karen goode - May 26

Hi ladies I really need your help. I already posted about my doctor informing me i am perimenapausal. I still can't wrap my brain around it. I feel too young to be going through this. I feel like all my hopes and dreams of seeing myself in my child are gone. I don't understand why this is happening. So I need to know if any of you no anyone who went through this and have success stories. I feel absolutely hopeless. Just when I started to feel hopeful my doctor dropped this bombsh__l. Please help me. I can't find anything on the internet regarding women who have gone on to have babies.


HopefulK - May 28

Hi Karen, sorry but I don't have any experience with this, but I am 34 this year and have had a neonatal death and a miscarriage just in this last year. So I get this is one heck of a ride. Just wanted to let you know your supported and send you some kind thoughts. Hang in there, you never know what can happen, they do amazing things with hormones nowdays and even doner eggs if it comes to it. Good luck. xx


karen goode - May 28

Thank you so much for your kind words of support. I am sorry for your loss and I hope ;you are holding up alright. I wish I knew someone who went through this I feel so alone. Not on the subject of mc but about the perimenapause. I need success stories. Thanks again.


HopefulK - May 29

Karen, thanks, I'm doing ok. Have you searched for websites specifically geared to premenapause? Just so they can give you specific help and advice? If you do, remember to let us know how you get on. (((hugs))) for you xx


karen goode - May 29

Yes I have but I can't find any women who is in my situation and has no children and is ttc. So I feel alone. You are very kind and really feel for you as well.


HopefulK - May 29

One thing I've learn't about this process is there is always someone in your same or a similar situation willing to help. Have you tried the 'having trouble conceiving' element of this forum? Maybe there's a lady there who's been through something similar?!!! Good luck, be kind to yourself hunny. x



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