So I M Not The Only One

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Dee76 - November 2

Wow I just found these threads after weeks of dealing with this. On Sept 29th I found out I was pregnant after a home test. On Oct 2nd I started spotting. My Dr. told me I was misscarrying, my HCG levels were low too. Was having blood drawn twice a week to check my levels. A week after they started dropping, they started increasing. So after a week of sobbing and thinking I was misscarrying, I found out I actually had an ectopic pregnancy. It was found in my left fallopian tube through an ultrasound. I had to go to the hospital and get two injections of methotrexate. It's now 11/2 and after a month of blood work twice a week and 3 shots in my hip, I'm RH Negative too (had to get a Rhogam shot for that) my levels are finally at zero. Had another ultrasound done to make sure my left fallopian tube was clear and now I have two very large cysts on my right ovary, which by the way were not there on 10/11. So now I have to go back on the pill for atleast 1 month to see if it's shrinks. I really feel like I can't catch a break. It was bad enough when my doc told me I was misscarrying, then to find out a week later I was still prego but I had to terminate it was just adding insult to injury, now this. I'm just devestated. I'm tired of crying, I'm tired of being poked and prodded and I'm tired of my doc not being sympathetic to my situation. I'm going to be 32 in 3 months and I can't help but worry that this is going to happen again. You always think you have all this time to start your life and then you get a big slap of reality in your face. I'm sorry I don't mean to complain, I know there are people who have had the same problems and worse I'm just so sad and scared. I don't know if my heart can take this again. I'm happy to have found this thread so atleast I know I'm not the only one. I wish all of you luck in getting pregnant and I sincerely hope we are all able to have happy healthy babies.


Tory1980 - November 3

Dee, I am sorry sweetheart. It's one thing after another with you it seems and I understand the poking and prodding and wanting to hide away. Doctor's I have found aren't sympathetic to a lot of women - seems to be common on this thread - miscarrying and whether that is because they se it every day or not a simple 'I'm sorry' would often be enough just so you know they are human! You have every right to complain, the same as every woman on this thread - that's why it is here. To try and reach an understanding, maybe get answers and to find some support. Feel free to vent and b___h and complain all you like - you need to. I am on another thread with a lot of supportive and amazing women (they helped me through my second miscarriage at 14w4d in January) if you want to bounce over and join in. We will make you more than welcome. It is The Clean Slate, I think we are on part 53 now! I hope to see you there. Take care sweetheart and know you aren't alone!


Dee76 - November 4

Tory ~ Thanks so much for listening and I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I can imagine how difficult it's been for you. I will definitely jump over to the clean slate. I actually started this thread accidentally. I went to respond to someone on another thread and started a new one. LOL I'm a new at this. You take care too and I'll see you over there!


Tory1980 - November 4

Good. I hope to see you there soon!


LC3 - November 13

I am so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage on Sunday and have a million and one questions for my Doc. Trust me I can relate with you that some of these doctors are very inconsiderate and I guess it is because they see this every day. I will pray for you please don't give up hope because I haven't yet. I will pray for you and everyone else who is and has gone through a loss.



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