Not Feeling Pregnant Today

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Lilu - June 7

I'm pretty sure everything is just fine but I'm just not feeling pregnant today. I'm 14 weeks so my m/s has basically subsided which I'm happy for don't get me wrong. BUT BUT BUT... I just am starting to be a little of a worry wort. I keep thinking, is the baby growing? is there still a heartbeat? I don't know why all the sudden I have these fears. I have my next appt tuesday but I wish I could go sooner. I don't have any signs of the baby not being okay. I'm sure it's all in my head. I did have a stillbirth last August at 34 1/2 weeks. But until now I really haven't had an anxieties about being pregnant again. I don't know what it is. I can't wait to be able to feel the baby so I know everything is okay. Sorry for babbling... just wondering if anyone else has felt this way?


Angiconda - June 7

I am sorry to hear what you have experienced in the past. It is prefectly normal to worry that everything is ok with your baby. i had a m/c last Oct and with the pregnancy I have done nothing but worry. I am now 28 weeks and everything is going well but earlier in my pregnancy I was worrying about the same things and I still worry, my best advice would be is just try to relax and enjoy your pregnancy I know it is easier said then done but I am sure everything will turn out fine with this baby. I also had spotting with this one which made me even more worried but all is well with my little guy. Good Luck!!


venus_in_scorpio - June 7

hey - I felt like that around 12 weeks and I was worried too but last time I had an u/s at 14 weeks baby was still measuring a few days big and HB was still 145 as per usual. dont worry! only when youre pregnant do we worry when we DONT feel sick. :o)


Lilu - June 7

Thanks... I guess it's just this in between stage. I generally consider myself a strong and positive person. I'm going to best to just keep those negative thoughts out of my mind. Have a great day


squished - June 7

Yesterday I got up and I felt like a totally normal person, no cramps, no bloating, no sore b___bs and I was like ok, what's wrong. We sure are wierd when we are pregnant aren't we! Everything I've read said that at some point you get over the crampy,sick stage and move on to the second stage where you feel human. I'm sure that everything is fine!


Jennifer28 - June 7

Hello ladies! I have been feeling the EXACT same way. I am 14w 3d today and have notice a SIGNIFICANT loss of symptoms. I am so glad I found this thread. My next appointment is 2 wks from today and I don't know if I can make it that long! In Dec. '05 I experienced missed m/c at what should have been 13w, but at the ultrasound discovered no h/b and a little bean that only measured 8w5d. I have been a nervous wreck the last couple of days. It is hard to keep positive thoughts when you experienced any type of loss... But, as hard as it is, we all should try b/c stress and worry is no good for us! ;) I'll say a prayer each of us will continue to experience a happy and healthy pregnancy! Good luck to all of you girls...


AmyF - June 7

If it makes you feel any better- I'm 21 weeks and I still wake up having to remind myself I'm preggo. The baby doesn't start moving until I've had my morning routine and breakfast so it's hard to remember at first :) I'm sure you'll be okay! Hopefully your dr's office will do scans at each visit like mine.


firsttimepg - June 14

I feel like that as well, I am 12 wks 5 dys, but I just had a doc appt yesterday and everything is fine, so you probably have nothing to worry about :)


Tiffany814 - June 14

Oh Lilu, I'm so sorry about your loss. It is absolutely normal for you to be having these fears but I'm sure that everything is fine with you. It's totally normal to be feeling that way. I have the same exact fears as I'm sure a lot of us pregnant ladies do. You'll feel better once you go to the doctor and they tell you everything is fine. Do you mind my asking if they knew what caused the still birth? If it's hard to talk about I totally understand. I just have a friend who had one 2 days ago and won't talk to anyone about it. It's a very scary thing. I'm so sorry you had to go through it and I wish you the best of luck for a healthy happy pregnancy and baby!


mandee25 - June 14

I am saddened to hear of your stillbirth last year. That must have been extremely difficult. The past few days I haven't been feeling pregnant either and I am 17w 5d pregnant right now. The movements seems fainter and less frequent than before and last Monday I had a doctor's appointment and heard Peanut's heartbeat and everything seemed fine. I am sure I am just worrying over nothing. Since I became pregnant and especially since I got through the first trimester I haven't really had much anxiety until now. I am sure everyone has days early in their pregnancy when they don't feel pregnant. I can't wait for the days when I feel movement all the time so I can feel more rea__sured between doctor's visits.


Lilu - June 16

Tiffany... i had an unexplained stillbirth. All our tests cam back normal... no clots in placenta or cord. The only thing we've concluded to is that she suppressed her cord in some way to cut off her oxygen supply and then let up when she pa__sed. B/c no knots or anything in cord. I just had my appt tuesday and everything is okay... heard the heart beat right away!! such a great feeling! I'm 15 weeks and 3 days. How you ladies feeling??


HannahBaby - June 16

you know what made me feel alot better, i rented a home doppler so that i could hear the heartbeat when ever i wanted ( it was 20 bucks a month and worth every single penny. Good luck and im so sorry to hear about what you went through last august.



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