Could She Be Pregnant Need Help

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Ta - May 6

No sorry I dont have that one so we can just use this, so let me ask you ( because I didnt understand what u meant) you were happy that it was neg or you were happy about her maybe being pregnant?

 

gs - May 6

im happy that it was negative because i have been really stressed for this past week, and so has she..as i have said before we are too young to have a baby right now and i thought it was all over hearing it was negative and i can finally relax, but ya kinda put me back on a downer..i just dont understand tho, if the test came back negative, and shes 10 days late, ur saying she could still be pregnant, like if she was, the test would prove that, right?

 

Ta - May 6

The key would is " could", its hard to say for sure because all women are different. I cant see why it would be negative if she was 10 days late. I mean there could be other issues there that can make a womans period late. You can always buy another test and have her retest, sometimes a test can be defective and not pick up on the hormone. So you have a few options, buy another test and see what that says, or like I said before make an appt at planned parenthood for a blood test or simply wait it out, but I dont suggest waiting because if she is pregnant then you need to know asap so you and her can plan on what to do next and so forth. I know its hard, and it can be very hard to deal with being so young and in this situation. But you can make it thru and I know things will work out as they always seem to do in life.

 

gs - May 6

but as i said we did have unprotected s_x, i never c_m in her, i kno now all about tht pre-c_m stuff..i guess re testing we could do again, but how long do we wait??

 

gs - May 6

as i said the weeks leading up to her period was that she was really sick, for a whole week n few days, then she got stressed out about work and this.

 

Ta - May 6

I have a friend who got pregnant from the pull out method and it is possible to get pregnant that way. You could retest today seeing as she is 10 days late. They normally say that if you miss a period to test the day after the missed period and if it is neg and still no period then retest 2 weeks later, so I would say that she could retest today.

 

gs - May 6

noo, she is now 10 days late, and we tested today and it came up negative.now what?how long do we wait for?

 

Ta - May 6

Stress can delay a period with out a doubt, but rule out the other chances that she may be pregnant before you contribute her being late to the stress.

 

gs - May 6

ok wel we took the test today after her being 10 days late and its negative, is it a good fair chance that she isnt pregnant?how long do we wait to take another?

 

Ta - May 6

I wouldnt think you would need to wait, I woud suggest going and getting another test and retesting today. She is far enough past her period that it should show on a pregnancy test, the test you already had her take could have been defective, so I would say buy another test and have her take it and then if it is neg I would say more than likely she is not pregnant but then she would also need to see a doctor to find out why she is so late. Also one thing I noticed is that when a woman is so stressed about being pregnant and then they find out they are not and the stress is lifted then they start their period soon after. But not everyone is that way.

 

gs - May 6

cant you just give me some good news..well it was really hard trying to get her to take a test, she is a very scared girl of mine and she has panicked alot too, so your saying take another test as it could have been faulty, just take another one to double check on the answer yeh?

 

Ta - May 6

yes that is what I am saying

 

gs - May 19

havent posted in here in a long time so i will update yas...ok she wasnt pregnant, just a late period after all, but worse was to come, now it has completely freaked her out and scared her, all i ever had tried to do was comfort her n try be wif her.we had big argument, now were on a break as shes so confused and does not want to see me, im leaving it for 3 weeks then i gues im going to try again, but ever since the break has started im getting hurt even more every day and i dont want to lose her i dont even know what to do wif meself at the moment..im giving her space and time but does not seem to be working.im depressed rite now, i dont want to lose her..what do i do? sorry it seems to be about a relationship but if anyone can help, i would love it

 

Emma2 - May 19

GS, by the way NO ONE can answer for you...only a test can....next time understand that before you DEMAND answers that clearly everyone tried to offer ...the only answers we could offer...USE a condom or birth control! Congrats on the negative ...

 

Emma2 - May 19

Leave her alone , give her time and try again...there is nothing anyone else can do for you....Dont push her too much and..Good Luck

 

Soontobemom - May 30

Just know that to avoid this in the future with anyone, be responsible for the both of you. Use a condom, and you are showing you really care for her by not giving her heartache.

 

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