Im Only 14 And Im Pregnate

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Denise - December 29

by you being so young and not old enough your parents will have to make the choice do matter how much time you are willing to spend with the baby.

 

A - December 30

When I was 14 I was pregnant, and my mother made me have an abortion. It was the best thing for me even though I took it very hard. I am now almost 20 and pregnant again, and I am keeping it but there is no way that I could have raised a baby at 14. I am not saying have an abortion but you should look into every option before you make a decision. You may regret it for the rest of your life.

 

? - January 5

when your pregnate do you have to go to the bathroom a lot? And when you do go to the bathroom do you pee a lot or just a little?

 

? - January 8

It seems as if everybody has the right solution for this young girl. But we do not know her exact situation we just know what she posted on here. Do you physically know if she is capable of being a mother. Age does not always say it. She could be a ery mature 14 year old. True enough s_x is not the answer at 14 but still. There are ways she can get through it. Yeah she will have to make sacrifices but she is not the first person to become pregnant at 14 I sure she wont be the last. But to advise her to just abort is wrong she came for help. I say put it in Gods hands and pray on it.

 

renee - January 11

Why of course.You are not even a n adult.

 

jaire - January 20

I am 16 and 9weeks pregnant.one thing i suggest is that you better start convincing your parents that you'll be resonsible he will too.i think nobody should accuse you. to anybody who is young and pregnant i could give you some advice email me at [email protected]

 

jaire - January 20

one more thing do not listen to any1 who tells you to abort. the baby is a living person for everything ther is a person in life!!!!

 

Amanda - January 21

I believe that they can because you are still under 18, but there is always the chance that they would want to care for it themselves.

 

chelsea uk - January 25

well first of all i will tell you im 14 aswell,15 in 7 months im pregnant aswell and it just feels as if my whole life has fell down in front of me,i have the support of my friend nat she is so good but the thing is before anyone says why are you doing it.....why didnt you think of condoms or pill....well i did the condom split and he didnt tell me i dont want to be judjed on here im just looking for help. x

 

nagam - January 27

sweetheart your only 14.... how much could you possibly give this child?If you dont mind me asking is your boyfriend older then you? If you choose to keep the baby, are you going to finish High School? There is a lot to think about before deciding to bring a child into your care. You have a lot of thinking to do GOOD LUCK

 

Secret - January 30

do this: if you abort it that is sin, but if you keep it Gods happy

 

joanna - February 1

yes if you want to keep your baby no one can make you give it away.iam i5and seven months pregant and iam keeping mine.

 

ca__sandra - February 1

I had my first baby at 14 and my mom tried to make me have an abortion but i wouldn't do it I am 20 now and 9 months pregnant with my 4 th child but i am married and all my children are by my husband so if you think you are going to stay with your boyfriend i would start trying to convince your parents you can be a good mother and he is going to be a father figure in your childs life because i wouldn't recomend adoption or abortion to anyone cause it will haunt you in the long run but you need to do what is best for you and your child but they cant make you give your baby up but they can have grandparent rights over your baby as long as you are liveing under their roof it all depends on you and your parents.good luck and i hope the best for you and your baby.

 

Erica - February 1

I dont think that they can make you, its you and your life and its your baby thats going to be born not theirs!

 

What - February 2

THEY CAN'T MAKE U GIVE UP UR BABY. IF ITS URS THEN U SHOULD KEEP IT. IF YOU FEAL THAT U CAN PROVIDE FOR AND TAKE CARE OF THE CHILD THEN U SHOULD KEEP IT. IF U KNOW THAT U WON'T BE ABLE TO DO IT THEN U SHOULD LISTEN TO UR PARENTS AND GIVE UR CHILD A BETTER LIFE. BUT IF U REALLY WANT TO KEEP UR CHILD THEN FALLOW WHATS IN UR HEART.

 

anon - February 2

i admire your courage, I got pregnant when i was 19, and was so afraid of the consequences that i had an abortion even though i had always been against it. So for you to accept responsibility for your actions perhaps makes you more mature than those of us who opt out. just make sure you know what it takes to raise child read lots adout babies and how to care for them because it is hard work. now that i have had a child I realise how ignorrant i was at 19

 

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