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Danni - August 26

I'm 23 and I have just found out that I am pregnant. The problem is I would love to have this baby but I have just started a new job and have lots of debts to pay off, there is no way that I would be able to afford to give up work. I love the father of the baby but he also is in a very bad financial situation, he is working and doing a college course to help him get a better job! We both live at home with our parents and couldn't even afford our own place. I'm so miserable because I have been through an abortion before and dont want to do it again, but realisticly we just cant afford to bring up a baby at the moment! Should I just go for the abortion and get over it???


Ashley - August 25

What about putting the baby up for adoption? I understand where you are coming from, and I am sure it is a very rough situation. But I am not sure if going with an abortion is the right idea. If it was bad for you the first time, maybe you should try just going with adoption. They can hook you up with families who have plenty of money to take care of your baby. Just a suggestion, do whatever you are most comfortable, I am not one to preach about what is right and wrong. I just wanted you to know that I understand what you are going through and wanted to tell you what I would do. Good Luck!!!


Danni - August 25

Thanks for your reply Ashley, thing is I could never give my baby up for adoption, I couldn't bare it. I know that once I saw it I would want to keep it. And I dont think I could live my life knowing that he/she is out there somewhere!!


star* - August 26

danni, i dont think you could leave your life knowing you killed your baby either, i know this is hard for you ,you sound like a good decent women for evening trying to get help, just hold your head up and be strong, a good thing will come out of this for you there;s a good reason for everything, god bless you!!!



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