I am a 19 year old guy, in a steady relationship with my girlfriend, who I love very much, for over a year and 3 months now.
We started having s_xual intercourse, around 3 months ago.
At the first couple of tries, the type of condom and the feeling didn't matter to us, since we were new to s_x, and I was helping my girlfriend step by step, to start adapting to intercourse.
As time went on, and as we got more experienced, I started buying new condoms, to see which one is the best for girls.
I've spent countless hours browsing, and searching around for the right brand and type of condom, not including all the money I've spent on buying all kinds of condoms. I bought R3 (German condoms), Durex (nearly all the types that exist, including the new one, called "Avanti"), Control (Spanish brand), and so on and on.
I am getting really frustrated, because I am running out of options, and so far none of the condoms worked for us.
The problem is, that my girlfriend barely feels anything, if at all.
Once we tried without, only for alittle bit, to see the difference, and there was trendmenous difference in the feel for her.
The moment I place on the condom, regardless the type it is, she feels nothing.
For me, lovemaking and showing love to my partner, consists of making her feel good too, not just so that I feel good.
It really frustrates me...I want to have safe s_x, be responsible, and be a loving partner...and I really try as hard as I can.
I would like some advice on the following subject.
Could be because:
- The condom is not put on right? (which I doubt)
- Is there anything besides latex/non-latex? (I tried both already)
- Do I need to use more lubricants? (I used so far: Durex - Play)
- Maybe the motion of the act is not right? (Shallow-Deep thrusts I do so far)
I would just really like to get this riddle solved, so please, if anyone could advise me, I would really appreciate that.