Very Big Dilemma

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Tessa9090 - June 6

Problem #1- I just graduated high school The first weekend in April I stayed with my boyfriend. We had unprotected s_x and he did.... Inside me. I had been on birth control for a little over a year however stopped taking it about 2/3 months before that weekend with my boyfriend. Problem #2- I used to get my period around the 15th of every month. However, since stopping my birth control My cycle became More random. After not getting my period in April, i took 2 pregnancy tests. One around 12pm and another around 5pm. Both came out negative I still have yet to get my period. Or even bleed at all. My mother has told me that I seem pregnant to her because I show symptoms similar to those she experienced during her pregnancy. I have occasional morning sickness, but it's not Every day so i don't know if i should completely dismiss it as a symptom? Also i have a strange feeling I'm my Uterus area. When i move in certain angles I feel a pressure on my Bladder? Not sure what this is. I'm also very tired often even after a lot of rest. Been feeling sick which is strange because I take vitamins which had improved my immunity pre-pregnancy scare. Problem #3- my boyfriend just deployed to Afghanistan last week so i don't know how to talk to him about this. Problem #4- after my negative tests I did get a tattoo and I did have a couple of beers at a party- not enough to have an effect on me However i am worried that this could have harmed my unborn child if in fact i am pregnant. Any advice AT ALL will help. As far as other symptoms i have gained about 8 lbs even though I diet and I go to the gym 3-5 times a week. The weight has only added to my lower stomach and br___ts.


Grandpa Viv - June 6

Tessa, you need to take another test. The first may have been too early. Don't worry about a couple of beers - just don't repeat if pregnant. As long as the tattoo did not get infected, I don't know why that should be a problem either. The boyfriend will be happy about this - give him something to focus on while at the front! Just don't bother him until you know for sure. If it works out the way you think it might, there may be one more mouth to feed by Christmas!



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