Abortion

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pulido - January 26

i havent had my period since dec22 now its jan26 nothing yet i have 2 girls one of them is 2 the other one is 6months and if im pregnant i dont know what to do? ive never had one before but my finnacial situations i dont know im really confused???help

 

jeanette - January 26

I cant tell you what to do darlin....but PLEASE dont have an abortion....I was a single mommy of 2 little ones and a teenage girl for 2 years, and I had nothing. I know its hard but God provides.....if anything, there are other options out there like adoption. God bless, be praying for you.......

 

jeanette - January 26

Have you tested already?

 

kjones - January 26

Pulido, I know that this is difficult and its your choice I would test ASAP. I am a single mother with 2 girls I was really young when I had my first all I agree with Jeanette take a test and consider something else like adaption. There are so many women and so many couples that would love to have a baby. Please think about it before you even consider an abortion. Please keep us posted.

 

Grandpa Viv - January 26

Abortion is an option no woman takes lightly, but your decision is going to affect the prospects of your present family. Call your local Planned Parenthood at 1-800-230-PLAN and ask to visit with a counselor. Good luck!

 

pulido - January 26

well im only 21 i hope im not i had protected and unprotected. i havent tested because i feel like waiting till nextweek. but i dont want to have an abortion when should i test am i late already see i was b___stfeeding 2 months ago and the last period was on dec22 now its jan26 i dont know i have stomach pain like fullness wanting to go to the bathroom to do #2 sorry 2 much info .my bbs arent sore sore thats it i feel like my bottom from my stomach is getting bigger maybe i need to stop thinking about it. discharge is greenish not whit i dont know

 

jeanette - January 26

Have you thought that maybe you have an infection that is delaying your period? Can you make an appt at the doc or clinic to find out whats going on? They can test you for pregnancy too, and look at other things which may be affecting your period.

 

Emily - January 26

I would def consult your doc. He or she will be able to tell you what is going on. Also if you have been b___stfeeding your periods maybe a little messed up from that. I urge you to test. Please don't abort a baby. If you are pregnant and can't take care of it, concider adoption. If you can't bare it give it up, concider open adoption. That way you will still be able to see the baby. I would visit your doc first to find out if infact you r pregnant. also a pregnancy resourse cneter or planned parenthood is a great option as they have many resourses you can use. good luck.

 

pulido - January 26

thankyou im going to do that i might have an infection u never know right thanks for the advise if i am pregnant like my mom says its not the babies fault its yous for not being on bc you know. thankyou ladies

 

Emily - January 26

your mom is a very smart woman. I am so gald you wouldn't harm your child. Good luck to you.

 

Lin - January 26

I know a lot of people will hate me for this, but I disagree with your mom. Women don't ask to be born with female genitalia, and I don't believe any woman should have to have a child if they don't want to. Abortions are done before any nervous system develops and hence before a fetus can feel pain or comprehend what is going on. Do what you feel is right for you. If you think that you would regret an abortion, however, then don't do it. You would just torture yourself over it.

 

Jen73 - January 26

Lin, with all due respect...women do have control over their female genitalia these days. It is called birth control. If you don't want children better make sure you get on it. If it fails there is a name for that...divine intervention:) Still love you!!

 

Lin - January 27

Sorry, there is no such thing as "divine intervention," nor is there such thing as 100% fail-proof birth control. So then shall women who don't want children be forced to abstain? No, don't answer that. This is not a place for a debate about abortion but for someone asking for advice. Abortion is an option. That does not necessarily make it the correct option or the best option for everyone. That is to be determined by pulido, not you or me. It is nevertheless an option and a valid one.

 

krissy - January 27

Lin if you dont think this is a place or a debate then y bring up the whole thing about not thing her mom was right....just know when you answer a question with no tact be prepared for others to confront you.

 

Emily - January 27

I totaly agree with Jen. I understand that there will be some who make a mistake one night and end up pregnant, but you know that is what happens. You deal with it. But that shouldn't involve killing your baby. Wether it can feel it or not is not the point. It is alive and it def didn't have a choice. It is a woman's choice to choose alright, but that choice is limited on having s_x, not killling the product of it...

 

Emily - January 27

okay just had to apolige if I offended anyone. It is just my opinion for what it is worth......

 

Lin - January 27

Krissy, how is saying that abortion IS an option using no tact? Because YOU think it's wrong? I brought it up, because poor pulido, who is confused and not sure what she should do, is being told by several others that abortion is NOT an option, because of THEIR convictions about it. While I personally am not in a frame of mind where I would even consider it for myself, I don't believe in guilting others into having children when they don't want to. I don't believe that abortion is wrong, so long as the fetus cannot feel anything (so yes, I do believe that late-term abortion is wrong).

 

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