Am I Pregnant Sum1 Please Help

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simone08 - October 26

hi everyone!!! im new to this forum thing so please bare with me. i am 17 years old. and i think i may be pregnant. i didnt plan on being pregnant though. i have taken 10 pregnancy tests and four of them said i wasnt pregnant and 5 said i was pregnant. but another one had a faint line. i am experiencing nausea, headaches, my feet were swollen i had to wear slippers, i have this dark line going down my stomach, my stomach is getting bigger. i gained alot of weight. i was 135 but now im 154.... my periods are onli on for like a day and a half. i have been feeling something like kicks and im not making this up because one night i was sleeping and i got a big kick that woke me up!!! i am also having some lower abdominal pains. i dont want to believe that im pregnant. the last time i got pregnant i was 15 and my grandparents forced me to get an abortion or they would kick me out. im scared to go to the clinic because my aunt works there and even though they arent supposed to tell and its supposed to be confidential she will tell. thats how my grandparents found out the first time. does any bodyy have any advice for me??? i would really appreciate it!!! =

 

kelbabe - October 26

wow! def preg!! you must be quite far gone to get the line from your belly b___ton down....that doesnt usually appeat till later

 

wantbabyboy - October 26

I would say your preggo ..there must be another clinic that you can go to without your grandparents and fix the problem yourself that way you are not hurting anyone ...if thats what you want and if so pls be carefull next time ...if you where in our shoes right now you would know how hopeful we are that one day we will be in your shoes .God bless you.

 

Corrie - October 26

wow, you posted this 4 times. Well, I will answer here since others have: When was your last period? Because if you are feeling kicks...that doesn't usually happen until 16-22 weeks.

 

simone08 - October 29

sorry i posted four times im just anxious to know!!! my last normal period hasnt been since june but like i said i have been bleeding for like a day in each month. im sooo scared now. there isnt anyother clinics near by and i dont drive.

 

EMMA2 - October 29

kicks? hun usually they start at 18-20 weeks and that would translate to being about 5 months pregnant ......as well the dark line happens very late in pregnancy....when was ur last period?

 

simone08 - October 29

i have been bleeding for like a day during every month. it's always very light. i dint know what that is.... mabey i shud just go to the clinic and if my grandparents just find out then they just do. but i have also known girls to have their periods while pregnant. this line is very noticable. my friends are even telling me that i am pregnant i dont want to believe them

 

EMMA2 - October 29

no one ever got their period while pregnant. they had some spotting but it is not and never will be a period. once again you didnt answer the question ..when was ur last real period.

 

simone08 - October 29

THE END OF MAY THE 27TH TO BE EXACT.

 

EMMA2 - October 29

ok go to a clinic and get a pregnancy test done and have a dr. examine you.....you cant be a__suming ..if u are indeed pregnant the baby needs regular check ups and u need blood work done and so forth..this is really not a game. find a way to get to a clinic..take the bus, ride a bike , take a cab...there is no time to waste

 

simone08 - October 29

MAY27TH TO BE EXACT BUT IT STOPPED JUNE 2ND AND ITS NEVER BEEN THIS LONG BEFORE

 

EMMA2 - October 29

ok have u heard anything ive said...its been too long and regardless of ur last period something is up ..GO TO THE DR.!

 

simone08 - October 30

well i went to the clinic. i walked ther... and i am pregnant... i go in for intake next week so i will let you know further information...

 

alape052105 - October 30

I dont know what you are planning on doing, but just know that there are many loving familys out there that would love to have a child. If you can't even tell your grandparents that you are pregnant than you defineatly are not ready to parent this child. Think about the baby and what the baby needs. Please consider adoption. This child deserves to be taken care of. Im not sayin that you arent capable of this, but you need to decide if you are able to do this and if not adoption needs to be something you think about. I would give anything to be able to have another child, and there are millions of women out there that say the same. For some of us getting pregnant is a terrible struggle, and its the only thing we want. Please consider what is best for the baby.

 

simone08 - October 30

well ive told my grandmother and she's not mad. she said its my baby and my responsibility. so they arent making me get an abortion. but to have my baby and give it up for adoption is something that i wont ever do. im going to be the best mother that i can be...i hated getting the abortion thats why i wouldnt do that again. thankx for the info. it has beeen of great help.

 

kelbabe - October 30

simone........im very happy you have decided to keep it. i wish you the best of luck, and im sure you will be a wonderful mother.........but......i just want to say, i personally believe giving up a child for adoption is a much better chioce than to kill one!!! i completly understand that some people have to have abortions, i could never do it myself, but i have friends who have had too, and i have supported them 100%. those friends would have prefered to give their child up, but couldnt for obvious reasons..........

 

simone08 - October 30

thanx alot!!!

 

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