Egg Meets Sperm Plan

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jj - April 25

I was just wondering how many of you out there actually tried this and got a BFP the first month you tried it.

 

stacey - April 25

I tried it but didn't get one. Another girl tried it with me and did.

 

stacey - April 25

check out pregnancy loss site- under my name, I bumped it up for you.

 

TTC - April 25

what are you talking about? I wanna know!

 

Lynette - April 25

I tried it last month but didn't get pregnant. Have just tried it again this month and I'll let you know. Only thing is, I don't know EXACTLY when I ovulate, like with temps or anything but just followed it as if I would ovulate on day 14. For TTC, the address is www.pregnancyloss.info/trying_again.htm

 

TTC - April 25

Thanks!

 

stacey - April 25

Lynette- don't feel bad< I tried to figure out when I was Oing, but couldn't understand OPK's, so we just would bd every other day, sometimes 3 in a row b/c I thought I might have ewcm...but kept confusing it w/ sperm. It was hard, but might do the every other thing again this month- but I know I ovulate later, so I'll start later.

 

Lynette - April 26

Hi Stacey, long time no speak! How are you hangin in there? Isn't this whole thing frustrating?! I just want to be pregnant again. I know you do too. I'm a bit down right now because my husband just told me that one of our friends just got engaged... and she's pregnant! I hate that I can't be happy for her, and I feel really selfish. I wouldn't like it if someone felt that way about me when I'm pregnant. Worse - he's made a dinner date for us with them next week. Aaaargh! There really are a million pregnant women around right now, aren't there?! Why aren't we two of them?!

 

stacey - April 26

Hi Lynette! I totally agree with you- why can't we be one of them and it sucks that we can't be happy for them, but we are in a way, but 1st thought is always why not us! I accidently saw on my computer that I would have been 20 weeks pregnant today :( I am sooo sad and cried a bit last night. I had been doing good not thinking about how far along I would have been and all that. sigh. hopefully this month! Cheer up. I have found it's easier to be jealous of other people's pregnancies when you aren't with them, but once face to face- you can feel happy for them. Maybe dinner is a good thing.

 

bump - April 26

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Lynette - April 26

Thank you, Stacey. I know what you mean about the face to face thing. A lady at work told me she was pregnant the other day and I had the most maniacal, stupid big grin on my face as I said "oh my GOD! that's FAN-TAS-TIC!!! I'm so HAPPY for you!" but inside I was actually thinking "if I stop smiling and carrying on like the happiest person in the world, I just might cry". I also made the mistake of marking off the weeks on a calendar at work. I've scribbled them out but the outline still shows through. Maybe I should get a new calendar...

 

stacey - April 26

Lynette- I did that on the calendarin my purse- it sucked when I had to go back and erase it. Trust me, you were fine- when one of my neighbors told me she was pregnant, we were in the kitchen and there was an island inbetween us- I didn't know what to do, so I high-fived her. HOW DUMB!! I was in shock!

 

Lynette - April 27

Stacey - that is so hilarious! I guess we can't anticipate what our reaction will be, so I suppose if at least it's a positive reaction, people should be thankful. Thanks for making me laugh :-)))

 

karen - May 3

I've also been thinking of doing this. has anyone else had any luck with it?

 

amy w - May 3

hi jj...i just read your question. i havent tried it yet, but just read through it with my husband...it definatly seems like it is worth a shot to me ( i have been trying for the last 3 months, and havent had any positive results ) really you cant go wrong, based on staceys post, it looks like there is a 50/50 chance ( since it was only 2 people lol ) but those are the chances of conceiving anyways...so why not right? i hope that any of that made sense. good luck to all of you, i will let you all know if it worked for me or not, and i would love to know if it worked for any of you too! baby dust!

 

Kate - May 4

Does anyone know if it worked for Lynette this month?

 

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ - May 5

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