Help I Need Advice

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le - November 9

Question: I'm pregnant. My hubby and I decided to wait another 2 - 3 years for a baby.. However, I changed my mind a few months ago and started asking him if we could have one now, but he said no and stop by his decision, I kept going on and on and he kept saying no. Now im pregnant and Im scared to tell him because I know he will think I did in anyway. he will probably think I stoped the pill behind his back, please help me, what do I do.. Im so scared he will be mad at me forever... I would never stop taking the pill to have a baby know its not what he wants. I dont know what to do...


Tatyana - November 9

The best thing to do is to tell him. The longer you wait the worse it's going to get. After all it is his baby and he should aceppt it how it is. I am sure you'll find a way to tell him.


Em - November 9

You have to tell him sometime and sooner is better than later. The longer you wait the more likely he is to think you did it on purpose. Explain to him that you didn't stop taking the pills, but sometimes things happen. If he loves you, he will understand. Just be sure to take care of yourself and your baby. Keep us posted on how it goes. We are here for you even if he trys to be a pain. My hubby and I tried for our first and he was excited when we got preg, but he still had doubts. They all went bye bye when he heard the heartbeat. I got pregnant w/ our second while on the pill and again, he wasn't all that excited until later. GIve him time, he should come around....


Michelle - November 10

Pray! A baby is a gift from God. I have 9 children and I might be pregnant now


Laura - November 10

Hi Le, Your dh didn't seem to do anything to prevent you from becoming pregnant. I am not saying this to be mean. Conrats! I hope he understands.


to le... - November 10

Tell ur dh, a baby is supposed to be a happy time, not a stressful time--get it off ur chest so u can enjoy ur preg. honesty is always the best thing in a marriage--if he doesn't believe u that u weren't trying either and it just happened--it's God's way of saying--His plan must have been for u 2 to have a baby at this time, and so since it is up to Him that's y it happened. Good luck!



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