I Am Worried

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no name 21 - October 10

I thought I was pregnant last month. I was having signs and symptoms like when I was pregnant before... And I had a "period" for 2 days, and it was early. I took a test after it was light and kept stopping and starting again for 2 days... The home test came out negative. I have had a period since then, but it's really weird. It comes early and will randomly stop for a day, a whole day. I am still feeling sick, tired, can smell a lot of stuff... But br___ts are hurting though like they did last month. I have been puking for what seems no reason at all and feeling dizzy. Also, I am getting the worst headaches. Usually I feel the sickest and have the worst headaches at night time. I don't know what to do. If I am pregnant, I'd be about 2 1/2 months, maybe 3. The doctor was concerned about why I feel so tired and all... She took my blood, but didn't tell me why except that she was curious as to why I am so tired. Do you think that she will test it to see if I am possibly pregnant? See, my mom was in the room, and she didn't ask me anything about my periods and all... But I have lost 2 pounds, but have gained 5 in the past couple months. I feel like eating, but things just don't sound good... Once and a while something will sound great, and I will eat lots of it though. Is it possible that I could be pregnant?? I mean, the test came out negative. And I probably wouldn't be getting my periods... And I am not having all of the symptoms. But, I don't know what is wrong with me. Do you think that I am possibly like this because of how I feel after having lost a baby in December? Do you think that my mind is just playing tricks on me? Because I have put it off as that for the past two months, and now I am getting sorta worried. Especially considering that they gave me an x-ray last month to see if I had pneumonia or something... Which I didn't, but I had a low grade temperature, tired, and my chest was hurting... Like, my heart hurts sometimes when I breathe. But it's not too serious. It's like.. heartburn or something. I just don't eat alot of spicy foods and stuff when it's bugging me... I don't know. I guess I just need opinions. I am 16 years old, and I feel lost sometimes when it comes to these things.


sarah21 - October 10

It is unlikely that you are pregnant, but not impossible. With the other symptoms and having bleeding, even if it is unusual for you, it could be that your body is just adjusting to something. I'm sorry I don't have any answers for you, but I hope the Dr. comes up with something soon!


no name 21 - October 13

Thank you. =).


SaraW - October 13

I remember when I was young and had sensitive issues I didn't want my mom to hear about in the doctor's office. You can always call the receptionist and request that the doctor call you back, so you can confidentially explain to them that you're concerned about pregnancy and explain why. I know when you're scared it's hard to open up about stuff like that, especially to a virtual stranger like your doctor, but it's important to make sure you and your possible baby are ok. If you do find out that you're pregnant, I recommend telling your mom right away. Hiding a pregnancy from your guardian can cause more problems for you and your health in the long run. If you're not pregnant...let this scare be a lesson to you to practice safe s_x until you're ready to have kids.


no name 21 - October 14

We do use condoms. So it is protected. They've broken on us and slipped before... I hate it when people are like "learn a lesson from it". But oh well... And they didn't test the blood for anything else other than looking at my white blood cell count. I fished around for information. So, if things don't change soon, I will take another test. And don't worry, I will never hide a pregnancy from my mother again. The guilt of hiding it and losing it was way more than I could ever deal with again... Even though there was nothing I could have done to change losing the baby, I still feel guilty like if I had told, I could have saved it, ya know? so yeah.



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