I Have VERY Bad News

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Tink75 - May 19

Hi everyone...I have received some really bad news; first let me tell you what happened...as you all know I have been having problems with my AF's lately...well, I did start the 16th and everything was fine, then Wednesday it got worse, the pain was so intense I could barley walk...then yesterday at work I was loosing ALOT of blood...I was going through 3-4 pads an hour not to mention the pain and the clots (sorry if TMI). This is not the first time I've had problems. Well, I went to the ER last night because I couldn't take the pain anymore and they ran some tests and stuff and it has been determined that first I am SEVERLY anemic to the point of Anemic shock and I will most likely need a hysterectomy. I can't believe this is happening to me and I am VERY upset and saddened BUT the more I sit here and think.....I have 2 beautiful children...Christopher James (7) and Savannah Lynn (4); I am sooooooooooooooo thankful and lucky for what I have and yes, I want another baby but I know in my heart that my health is more important and I need to be healthy so I can take care of and be around for the 2 children I DO have. I see my Ob today and we will probably set up the surgery soon. I'll keep you all updated...thanks for reading if you got this far. ~Candy~ aka Tink


Emma2 - May 19

Oh my Tink! I am so sorry .........You are lucky to have 2 beautiful kids already but I understand your need for another. Hang in there sweetie.......Let us know what happens!


Nory - May 19

Hi I'm new here but I just wanted to tell you how very sorry I am, I wish I could say something to make you feel better, you have two wonderful gifts that God send you. God does not give us more then we could handle, I'm going to keep you and your family in my prayers. God Bless. Keep us post it. :(


curly - May 19

im so sorry for what your going through, im praying for you.


corinne - May 19

Hey tink I'm so sorry. I know how you feel about the anemia because I to have it and when I found out it was not very comforting to here. It is so sad to see someone that wants to be blessed with another child not get the oppurtunity. You still have your two beautiful children that you were blessed with. I wish you and your family the best of luck and I will have you in my prayers.


snickelfritz - May 19

I am SO sorry to hear that!!


linds99 - May 19

First of all, I am really sorry for you. That is not easy news to share. If I could give you a hug I would. But you are right, your health and well being very prevails in this situation in determining what is best. The doctors can help you to live a normal and healthy life for your two beautiful children and DH. Thank God you sought medical attention when you did. God Bless you and good luck with your surgery.


Jenny - May 19

How terrible!! But like you said at least you do have two angels.


VenusdiMilo - May 19

Sorry to hear that Tink! Hang in there and good luck with everything.


Emily - May 19

I too am sorry for you. I will be praying for you. You are right, your health is the main thing right now. You want to be able to taek care of the two precious ones you have. I went through a m/c last year and having already having one child, I knew I was blessed enough to have the one. She helped me through it. She gave me a reason to get up and continue on. I pray you find the strength you need.


Lin - May 19

Wow Tink, I'm so sorry for your situation! Best of luck to you!


LN030905 - May 20

Tink...I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this...I will certainly be praying for you..just remember that God never closes a door without opening a window! God Bless!


BrendaW - May 20

Tink i am really sorry to hear that. I am glad you have 2 wonderful kids before this happened but am sorry you wont be able to have anymore. i dont understand about the anemia thing meaning you have to have a hysterectamy? How did it go with your OB? Again, my heart goes out to you.


sarahbaby11 - May 20

tink i am so sorry and i feel for you. the women who watched my daughter while i was training for a new job had to have a hysterectemy done. she was blessed with 4 children. you are looking at tthis is a very positive and caring way thinking about your children first. you are truly a wonderful and caring women and i wish the best for you. please keep us updated on how you are and remember we are all here for support.


mtnla__s - May 20

I wish you the best, but please be sure that is the only option left to you. You'd hate it later if you saw another doc and they said they knew something new. Of course don't bleed to death but if you have the time please do some research and get another option. Best wishes to you!!!!



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