Immediate Help Now Please

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Laceyandsamsmamma - February 8

Ok I have a doc appt. in 2 hours. I need help. I want to be put on fertility treatments I have been trying since aug. I have taken 3 months of unprescribed clomid. I have never tried this hard with any of my 4 pregnancies. This is a new doctor for me. How do I get him to put me on fertilty and monitor me?

 

Megs - February 8

Request it. Tell him you've been trying a long time and something just isn't right. Yo'uve had previous pregnancies with no problem and this isn't right... Be open and honest. :-) good luck! let us know! First, have him do a blood test since still no AF...

 

Laceyandsamsmamma - February 8

I think Af is here I am still spotting a bit and I feel like she is here plus I took another test and nothing a BFN

 

Laceyandsamsmamma - February 8

do you think I should tell him about the unprescribed clomid?

 

Noodle - February 8

tell your doctor you have been trying over a year, thats when your cla__sed as with infertility problems

 

Laceyandsamsmamma - February 8

but wont he just get my previous records and see that I had depo last June?

 

Megs - February 8

He SHOULD have your records but you have to sign a form releasing them to a new practice.. If he is in the same practice, just a different dr. then yes he will see that. Sarah, be honest with him and let him know your feelings. If he is a good dr. then he'll understand and take that into consideration. I don't know if I would disclose the Clomid to him though since it's illegal... *I responded to your other post on the thread as well*

 

Laceyandsamsmamma - February 8

well I read that someone on another thread said that they told thier doc that if they didnt put them on clomid they were gonna go buy it and she said her doc put her on it then?

 

Laceyandsamsmamma - February 8

and this doctor is in a new clinic and I havent signed any release yet

 

tonia - February 8

Laceyandsamsmamma, how old are you? The older you are, the more aggressive dr's are with starting you on fertility meds! Also, if your dh will do it, ask your dr to order a s____n a___lysis for your dh. Maybe he has the problem, not you? I know that was my problem. I went on clomid for 5 months, for nothing! My dh had a low sperm count because he had a varicocele(large one), he had it repaired and one month later we were pregnant! Do you know if you O on your own? Also, if you just tell the dr you have been doing some research on your own and you want to try clomid, he should do it, with out a problem.

 

Megs - February 8

Do you want him to put you on Clomid since you've tried it already a few cycles?? What fertility treatments are you looking to have? Maybe you should ask for a referral to a fertility specialists in your area...

 

Laceyandsamsmamma - February 8

I want the clomid with the shot so i know when I o because when i take OPK I get the same line for a week straight I have no idea when I o'd last month

 

Laceyandsamsmamma - February 8

I am getting a reg period and all but nothing

 

Laceyandsamsmamma - February 8

and to answer your question I am going to be 27 in april and my dh turned 41 yesterday

 

tonia - February 8

Also, I agree wityh Megs, maybe you should just see an RE. But again, all that depends on your age. The older you are the more aggressive they will be.

 

tonia - February 8

Ok, you are not old enough for it to be urgent! ; ) But I seriously think your dh should have the s____n a___lysis, it can't hurt. He is the father of your others right? (sorry if that was a stupid question) Even so, sperm counts change all the time for different reasons, maybe his is too low for conception right now? I seriously urge you to get that done. It may save you months and months of heartbreak.

 

DaBonkElsMe - February 8

I think you should tell him about the Clomid. The doctor is not a cop, he cannot reveal anything you tell him to anyone else, no matter what. Even if you told him you were on crack, he couldn't reveal that. But if you have been trying Clomid and still not getting PG, he should know that b/c maybe he can prescribe a dif. dose or some other medication! Just my toughts! He will likely be hesitant to start fertilty treatments though, you'll have to demand that he at least start testing you and DH for other issues! Good luck, hope I didn't post too late!

 

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