Need Some Positive Feedback

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ld - May 9

how long has everyone been ttc?? Anyone that has been ttc and finally got pg how long did it take?? When you got pg what di you do?? I've been try for a yr now and no results. Recently I thought I pg and I wasn't. Now My cycle is al messed up. Jan normal af, Feb None and thought I was pg. Mar. Really heavy, April had 2 they where 23 days apart. now I'm not too sure how long my cycles are. Me and my husband agreed we would try another yr, than se a doctor. I'm 27 and he is 33.

 

Jen - May 9

I have been trying for only 3 months, but it feels like an eternity, so can only imagine how you feel. If I were you I would see a doctor sooner rather than later. There are things they can do for you.

 

ld - May 9

When I first went to the doctor to get a check up in Sept. He said don't worry about it it will come. NOT!!! I know that can help me sooner, but I want to do it without fertility drugs, just because mutiples already run in his family and my.

 

Jen - May 9

Well then I would do everything you can. If you haven't already start charting your temps, cm, cervix, everything. That way if you do ovulate you will know. It is very hard to deal with when you don't know what your body is doing. Also you could get your husband checked out.

 

Meghan - May 9

Hi LD - My husband and I tried for 9 months and we finally got pregnant, but we had help. I went straight to the dr and told a little white lie (and I don't think it would have mattered anyway) that we had already been trying for a year, (when it was like 7 months or so) I was scared b.c it took my sister 2 1/2 yrs to conceive her first and she needed to get an IUI for it. Please, do yourself a favor, find a reputable fertility dr and they will fix you right up! Don't wait another year, you have no clue if you may have a blockage, or something like that. My sister has unexplained fertility,so even if all the elements are right, it still is only about 25% chance you get pregnant. Once you tell this new dr that you've been trying for a year, they will help you!!!!! Serisouly, I was sooo upset about not being pregnant and when I consulted with the fertility dr I felt SO MUCH BETTER! It was like coming out of the dark, I was sooo happy just to talk to someone. He a__sured me that he would have me pregnant in a couple months (of course as long as everything was ok, you know) and he did! Please, please go to a fertility specialist...don't wait like my sister did, it was precious time lost and the pain was unberable for her. HOpe this helps!

 

ld - May 9

Thanks everyone. how much does it cost to see a fertility dr. I live in ontario. maybe i should go to my dr and get a referral for a fertility dr.

 

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