Not Happening

11 Replies
Jenny - March 30

I just can not get pg. I have now been ttc for 7 months. Next af is due April 3rd. Took a early pg test and of course bfn. I'm 28 years old, it's not suppose to be this hard!! Just had to vent....Thanks for reading.


JENZEY - March 30

Hi Jenny, I'm also 28. I've been ttc 2 1/2 years. I have PCOS & just finished my 2nd cycle of Clomid. Have you been to a fertility doctor? babydust*~*~*~Jen


Emma2 - March 30

I really give props to you ladies who have been trying so hard. I hope you all get a scrumptious little baby soon. :)


Jenny - March 30

No I haven't been to a fertility docter because I already have one son who is three, so I know that there is nothing wrong with me ( I think ). I just thought that it would not take this long. If I don't get pg soon I go the doctor. Jenzy I wish you luck with the Clomid.


Emma2 - March 30

Jenny, I hate to say this but just because you had a son 3 years ago doesnt make it possible now. Your body can change. I do think that your still young and 7 months is still a good time frame but you never know .....Maybe you should start thinking of talking to your dr as a precaution. Wish you the best and Good Luck!


Jenny - March 30

Thanks Emma, it 's something to think about.


Grandpa Viv - March 30

IMHO a preg test before you are late for AF is a poor investment. Try another first pee April 8th. Maybe you should start charting at to confirm you are ovulating and find out exactly when. The commonly accepted advice about fertility docs is to wait until you have been trying for a year. The very best of luck to you!


Gem - March 31

I would try a little longer before seeking help. It took me 6 months to get pregnant and I was starting to think it would never happen. Are you bd'ing at time of predicted ovulation and have you tried putting a pillow under your bum after bd'ing in the missionary position to help the sperm on their way? Also don't know if you use lubricant but I was using it and then found out it can decrease the sperms mobility by 70%.


Emma2 - March 31

Hi all, I didn't say that she should seek help because 7 months is long. I said 7 months is still within the normal range. But,when TTC no matter how old you are you should speak with your dr regardless so he/she can give you advice and vitamins and so on.


Jenny - March 31

Grandpa Viv and Gem, I have done everything, using ff, temping, using opk, and holden in the swimmers. I did have a iud taken out in July, by Planned Parent Hood and have not went to the doc sense then, so I was thinking about telling him that we have been trying a little longer than what we have.


Jenny - April 1

Af showed this morning, not unexpected. On to next month.


sanders mum - April 3

ah enny..dont worry so much...i have a 3 year old had taken us 8 months too then had mc, anyway it is normal...try making sure that your really healthy...nice food chill enjoy yourself and it will happen. its always a good idea to have a chat to your doc and see what the pair if you think. loads of luck and dont despair



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