PLEASE HELP Could I Be Pregnant Scary Only 19

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only 19 - January 24

I have been off the pill for about 8 months now. I got regular period the month after but I have never gotten my period again. I went to the doctors about 4 months ago and got a test done.. It was negative. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected s_x for a while now and about a month ago I felt like I had really aweful period cramps but my period never came again. Could I be pregnant? I have no pregnancy symptoms besides having to go pee really badly and when I have to go I can't hold it in what so ever. Please help.. I'm only 19...


Anne - January 25

If you were four months pregnant, I think you would know. If you are worried why don't you buy a hpt just to ease your mind? Maybe sched. another appointment with your doctor for an exam since you have not been having your period - just to make sure everything is okay. As for the urine situation, maybe you are just soooo stressed out about the possibility of being pregnant that you are noticing and magnifying even the smallest things. Try not to worry and keep me posted.


Jenna - January 25

If youre 19, and scared about having a baby why did you get off birth control and start having unprotected s_x? makes no sense to me.


Hmmm... - January 25

Jenna, not everything HAS to make sense to you...who are you or I to judge someone else? If you want to promote the use of contraceptives than please do so in a positiv manner. Maybe she stopped the pill because of insurance reasons, health reasons, etc.


Cairns - January 25

Totally with you Hmmmm.. This forum is turning into a b___h fest... I thought we were here to help and support each other not judge people... Only 19 would suggest you visit your doctor.. good luck to you..


Jenna - January 25

Im 20 yrs old, been there done that and have a 2 year old. I know d__n well planned parenthood give out free contraceptive cause IVE done it. And being there and knowing what i know now, i can say that it makes no sense to me for a 19 yr old to be scared about getting pregnant BUT she makes the choice to have unprotected s_x and stop birth control like she didnt think it was gonna happen! im not trying to be inconsiderate but its common sense and i sure as well wish i had it sometimes when i was 17! Im not being a b___h OR trying to start a b___hfest, read my other posts i offer nothing but GOOD advice, just this time it struck a nerve.


Cairns - January 25

Jenna maybe you should not judge people here.. like hmmm said maybe she went off it for a reason.. nothing to do with us, she wants some advise... I also had a child in my teenage years so maybe we are the perfect people to help as we know what she is feeling ..


Jenna - January 25

I can relate to her, but not in the sense that she is "scared" of the fact that she might be pregnant when she made the concious decision to stop her birth control and NOT USE CONDOMS. there are plenty of other options to prevent pregnancy if in fact birth control made her sick etc. If you are pregnant, see a doctor, if not see a doctor anyway you might have an std or infection...


kat - January 25

i have to say i agree with jenna,im not being b___hy but if you dont want a baby then use birth say to a hpt,if it is negative then realise by having unprotected s_x you could be pregnant at anytime,good luck.


B'Lana - January 25

Only 19, it is a possibility and you should start taking care of yourself. I was terrified thinking that I could have a baby (my body can't take pill or shot for medical reasons and I am allergic to latex), but since a lot of my friends have babies and I might have one now- there's nothing to be scared about. Honey, god gives you children when it's time for you, it's a miracle and just tests your strength. you are a strong woman and can handle it well with a little family support. If you are pg, just sit down and think through your live calmly. If you are in college, you still have 9 months, then you can take time off or take online cla__ses, or enroll in online university (phinex or streyer...) Children are not cheap, but it is possible to raise them well w/o much money and go through college, I know at least 7 people who are doing that. (even a single father of triplets manages) so don't get discouraged or upset, there's nothing you can do about it now, only take a good care of yourself (it's actually cheaper than eating junk) and remember everything you feel-your baby feels (if you are pg). And trust me I can relate. I am 20, I am in college and strugling to live well and pay my bills :) Best wishes to you and keep us informed :)


A - January 25

B'Lana has given excellent advice!! Listen to her, print it out, and read it everyday. I would give the same advice. God wouldn't give you anything you couldn't handle.


Michelle - January 25

Thank you very much B'Lana... U made me feel very good and I am in college and I am doing really good. I kinda feel better if I am pregnant because I know that there are people out there who care about me and will help me if I need it... Thanks for the support and I will go get a test! Thanks


Hmmm... - January 25

Jenna, We ALL make mistakes. While she did make a decision to not use some form of birth control, she is ALLOWED to feel scared. You cannot tell someone that they are not allowed to feel a certain way...despite their actions or lack of actions. Please try to be a little empahtetic and compa__sionate. Michelle, I hope everything works out for you. We are all here to support and encourage you in any way possible. AND PLEASE let's remember: "For with what judgement ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but consider not the beam that is in thine own eye" (Matt. 7: 2-3).


to Hmmm... - January 25

lol.........this is a pregnancy forum not a church meeting!


Selene - January 25

Take another test and stop stressing. If you are pregnant then make a decision. Don't ask advice from a bunch of people who couldn't care less about you. You know what to do


candy - January 26

lol....i just think that it is funny that ppl say this turned into a b___h fest....what do u expect we r all a bunch of pregnant or pre mentral women....i just thought this would make some one smile or laugh....and michelle,hun,i think that even if u r wanting a baby it is kinda scary...just take a deep breath and do what ya have to do to be happy....and i suggest adoption not abortion.......but above all i suggest u hang in there and if ur preg then trust me u wont be scared after u hold that baby in ur arms for the first time..or when u see the first u/s..or hear the first h/b....good luck hun...


Jessica - January 26

You got yourself into this one. You might have a UTI( Urinary Tract Infection) if you can't hold off going to the bathroom. Having a baby at 19 is hard take it from me I had one! good luck!!



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