Positive For Everyone Else But Only In My Dreams

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Erin - March 10

Last night I had a dream that I took a pregnancy test and it finally came out positive. I was so excited and we were so happy to tell our families. Then the stupid alarm clock went off. I hate that cause I actually have to think about it and remind myself you were dreaming and you're not pregnant. I'm getting so frustrated. Last month my sister announced she was pregnant (when she wasn't even trying) and this month my sister-in-law is pregnant. I want to be happy for them, but it's really difficult and I feel like such a bad person because of that. :-(


Erin M - March 10

i know wxactly what you are going through. I have wanted to have a baby for two years now though I just finally "talked" my husband into it. We have been ttc for 3 months. It always seems like whenever I think I am pregnant, someone else finds out that they are. It is not fair!! I find myself being jealous of new moms. I am trying to relax since we are trying now but it is so hard sometimes!!


Shannon - March 10

Erin, I have been ttc for over a year now and trust me it is not easy seeing others announce that they are pregnant. There was one month that I was really depressed at just finding out I wasn't pregnant (My AF came). That day I checked my e-mail only to see that two of my friends were pregnant. Feeling quite down I phoned my best friend to talk and asked her if she know about these two women being pregnant, to which she replied that there were actually three of my friends that were pregnant. What a b__w that was! I was depressed for a long time because of that and I still to this day find it hard being happy for them. I'm sorry I don't have good advice for you or anything encouraging but I did want you to know that you are not the only one going through this. I pray that one day soon you will get that BFP!


kat - March 10

it seems like everywhere i look there are people with babies,whats worse is 3 of my closest friends say if they got pregnant they'd just get an abortion,this makes me so angry.you arent a bad person,its natural to feel this way when you want something so bad,it will happen,just keep trying..good luck :o)


vanessa - March 10

You're not at all a bad person... you're human. I work in a huge office and just today I was talking to a co-worker about the fact that it seemed as if EVERY woman on our floor was expecting! I got a baby shower invite via email today for a woman I DON'T EVEN KNOW! I felt that was a bit rude, honestly. Anyway, hubby and I just started trying and I know exactly how you feel. But I'm sure you are more aware of your reaction to this news than others. Hang in there... if you keep trying long enough, the odds are in your favor that YOU will be the one spreading the good news very soon. Take care **baby dust** :)



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