Question For Frozenfeet

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nino3 - January 19

Hey frozenfeet. First of all, congratulations on your BFP. Its amazing how little it took you to get it. Its a blessing. I wanted to ask you something and im sorry if its tmi. Anyway i heard from many in this forum that its really bad to be on top because the little swimmers cant fight against gravity or something. Well, mu DH has alot of trouble c_ming unless i am on top. Do you know if this is true. What was you position when you onceived. Also did you do any of the things like lift you legs up for who knows how long or put a pillow on you back etc. to help the little swimmers? I dont do anything. Alot of the times im on top when my dh c_ms and i never lift up my legs or do anything. I just really lay there, put my clothes back on and go to bed. I just got a positive OPK yesturday at noon and we bd at 10:30 at night. Should i keep BD'ing or do you think this was enough, Hope you answer soon and congratulations once again. You really deserve this. You were such a support to me last month, thank you for that. Hope you dont leave us any time soon. Good luck and sticky dust to you.!!! :)

 

krissy2006 - January 19

nino3, sorry, I'm not frozenfeet, I hope you don't mind if I answer though, just because you got a positive yesterday does not mean that you have ovulated yet. It could take up to 48 hours after a +++ OPK to actually ovulate, so keep BDing girl!!!!!!!!! As for being on top or bottom or whatever, I truly think s_x is s_x just some positions are more TTC friendly. I do believe you can still make babies by being on top.

 

nino3 - January 19

Hi Krissy2006. Thank you for your response. I will probably BD tonight again and hopefully on Saturday morning. Hope my DH is up to it. Do you know if you have to lift your legs up or lift your hips and legs??? Ughhh Why does this have to be so difficult. It took my best friend 2 months to get her BFP. She also bd a day when she had a negative opk. She got the positive opk 2 days later. She never thought she was going to conceive that month but it happened and now she is about to have her baby on Fe. 18. A little boy. I had been TTC way before her and gave her all the pointers about using opk and what the best days were. I never thought it was going to get to the point were she was going to deliver and i hadnt been pg yet. Im sooo bummed out.How are you doing Krissy? How are your mood this days?

 

BrendaW - January 19

I hear being on top you are more likely to conceive a girl :). Good luck. I have never heard of a guy only being able to get off in one position.. that is interesting to me. Usually it is the girl who has those kinds of things going on.

 

Ella82 - January 19

Hi nino i dont think any positions really matter (those spermies know their job) but like krissy said there are certain ones that are better for ttc. Here's a tip about lifting legs up - i use to put my legs in the air and cycle for like 30seconds then lay down for about 10mins, i use to always have to go to the bathroom after that tho because i am prone to uti's. Something worked i got my bfp last sunday- good luck and get bding!!

 

layni - January 19

I have heard doggie style to be the best way...?... GL** Ella- I'm gonna be riding an air cycle this weekend- legs in the air**hehe** hope DH doesnt see me.

 

Ella82 - January 19

HAHA layni Dh use to leave me for a while to do that "stuff" kind of killed the moment after bding.

 

layni - January 19

LMAO- I could just picture my dh's face if he saw me doing that.. Oh boy**

 

frozenfeet - January 20

Hi Nino - SSSooooo sorry it took me so long to respond, I was on a road trip with hockey and just returned. To be honest with you, I don't think it really matters who is on top....if you have the right cm...they will swim!! I have heard that with you on top, gravity works against you, but as long as you get right off and lay down with a pillow under your hips, I'd say your chances are just as good. They say also, that he might not be able to get the deepest penetration with you on top, but if you push down right at the right time....no worries there either! I think that the night I conceived, he was on top but we tried it with me on top, and doggy style too. I did, however, put a pillow under my hips everytime for about 30-45 minutes and I didn't get up all night long!! Also, my DH c_ms better when I'm on top as well, but if we bd with a pillow under my hips, he can c_m pretty easily on top. I hope that this helps and when in doubt....BD away!!!!!! GL hun!

 

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