Somebody PLEASE Help Me Help Would Be GREATLY Appreciated

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mil - June 3

Okay, well...on May 31st and June 1st my boyfriend and I had unprotected s_x...we thought that the pull out method would work okay... He had urinated both times before we had s_x and did not ejaculate inside me or near my va___a. I didnt see any pre-c_m present... I've been looking up information about pre-c_m online and half the websites i see say pre-c_m does have sperm in it while the other half say it does not... Also, I think I was ovulating then, too. Ever since we had s_x nothing has come out of my va___a besides urine. Usually I always have some sort of white-ish liquid. It's only been about 4 days since and I'm really freaking out because I don't know if I could be pregnant or not. I'm praying I'm not but... I dont know. I'm really scared and I'm not sure what to do.


Danielle26 - June 3

When is your period due? Are you sure of when you ovulated?


ashleyd - June 3

Pre-c_m has become a debate, but in general - this is what I've learned... The reason half of the sites say yes or no, is because there isn't always sperm in it, but sometimes there is. Regardless of how you practice pull out, it's not something you can bank on. Some info that would help is when was the 1st day of your last period...and what was the reason you thought you were ovulating (such as discharge..) so everyone can get an idea.... good luck :)


mil - June 4

my period should be coming along on the 5th or 6th of this month, so i havent exactly missed it yet, i'm just really paranoid And no, I'm not sure if I was really ovulating or not but there was discharge the day before we actually did anything... thank you so much for posting on this board you guys, i really appreciate it..


gilmoregeek - June 4

I am in the same boat, but things with my bf and I got a little out of control. He didn't pull out and now I am not too sure what to do. I don't know what to tell you, take a test. I took two and got 2 faint lines on each. And you know, I hear a positiv is a positive. ah!


Grandpa Viv - June 4

If your period is due 6/5 then you likely ovulated 5/22 and were not fertile 5/31. True pre-c_m is from the Cowpers gland which does not contain any sperm - it is for lubrication and pH control. If foreplay continues for long enough, or if there has been a recent previous s_x act, then sperm may indeed be present in this fluid. The number of sperm would be way less than in a full shot of s____n. Learn when your fertile window is and avoid temptation for those days. Use a condom plus v____al spermicide (foam, film, insert) the rest of the time and you will be safe. Good luck!


LadyD - June 5

mil, sorry not tring to be funny but I had to correct you on one thing: you do not pee out of your v____a. I agree with Grandpa Viv, it may have been too late for you to ovulate and if you don't want to get pg, wrap it up or try another form of bc (Depo,pills, I heard Nuvaring is good too). Good luck.



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