Stil Waiting And Getting Soo Frustrated

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Chas - November 8

I don't know about most of you, but I am getting so antsy!! Dh and I have been TTC for 11 months now and still no luck. I think I have tried everything ! Does anyone have any good advice or anything I can try ?? As far as I know we are both healthy. I have been to the doc and he said everything looked good. I think if we don't conceive by the end of the year I will get dh checked out. Has anyone's Dh ever been the problem ?? Thanking you in advance !


kris b. - November 8

I don't have any advise for you, but I do know I am still ttc after 9 months and very frustrated as well. We are both fairly young me 25-him 31, and healthy so I'm not sure what the problem is. All of my sisters got pregnant right away and without even trying! It's so frustrating, did I say that already.;) Good luck maybe we can wait together


amy - November 8

i'm trying for 4 months now and the only thing my girlfriends who are pregnant said is don't stress and try and not think about it, the doc even said that. they all said if you stop trying that's when it will happen, I guess we'll see if they were right.. good luck ladies.


Chas - November 8

yeah, That's all I hear is "don't stress, it'll happen when you least expect it" - okay, easier said than done. This month I did try to de-stress. I didn't chart, use opk's or anything. We did try to make love during the time I thought was right. Af is suppose to be here Friday. I tested today, bfn :( We are both 30, but I was on bc for a really long time. I don't know, it just gets to you after awhile. Plus, I went to my neice's baby shower over the weekend and she is 18! and of course wasn't planning it. Isn't that how it always works out ??? I was fine until that, and now I am stressed out again


kris b. - November 8

Yeah I totally agree that the 'don't stress' stuff is bull****! Because I haven't been charting or ovulations predictors at all, my husband and I have just had the att_tudes in the beginning that if it happens, it happens. And we even stopped 'trying' for a couple of months, and same thing -my sister wasn't even trying and got pg with her 2nd! and is now 5months and gets to find out what she's having in 2 weeks. And that's when it hit me. I really am not stressed out about it. Only a few days a month I figure out when I will O and as it close to the time AF is near I start to wonder, 'am I' but that's it. It doesn't consume my entire life and that is why I don't believe in the don't stress out and it will happen stuff. THat's also what everyone said when you are 'looking for the right guy'. They say stop looking and you will find him! I say it's a load of c___p! But maybe it's just because I'm sooo frustrated:)


Tara - November 8

My brother in law had a low sperm count and his wife had no periods but they were still able to conceive. I forget what they used but it was through a fertility treatment center. Lots of docs have told me that if a year goes by and you don't conceive then further actions should be taken.


Malasam - November 9

Hi Chas......well my DH and I have been trying for 9 months now and still nothing. I know how frustrating it is waiting for the 2 week wait! I am 99.9999% sure that it wasn't my month this time.....we didn't BD on my ov date as DH was too stressed about work. I ov'd on the Wednesday but the last BD was now I'm just waiting for AF to come and go so we can try again. Keep us informed! *****BABYDUST TO ALL**** xxx


Chas - November 9

Thanks Tara, that is encouraging.



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