There Is Hope

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Jenna - August 25

I just wanted to take sometime to let all of you hopeful mothers out there that there is hope for all of you and I wish you the best of luck! I would like to share my recent experience with you all and maybe help someone else out there who is going through the same thing. To start off I am 32 and have wanted a baby since I started my period. I never tried then but I always knew that I wanted a baby. When I was 21 I was in a long term relationship with a guy and after months of trying to concieve had been told that I had a slim chance because of a cyst on my ovaries. Deep down though I never gave up hope. I prayed and knew that good would bless me when he knew the time was right. To make a long story short I again became involved in a committed relationship and knew that I was now in my 30's and the chances to have a baby would be harder if there would be any hope at all. So we both began trying. My periods are ALWAYS normal and never late. So when I missed my period I thought yippy this is it!!! I went out and bought several over the counter tests all might I add were negitive. I was frustrated and upset so I took my frustration out on my boyfriend and we broke up. A few weeks later I started seeing another guy. It wasn't anything serious I actually still missed my ex. I just needed to get him off my mind I let things get out of hand and we were intamite. The weeks following I started noticing that I wasn't feeling very well, I felt like I was getting sinus infection so I took some sinus medicine and went to lay down right after I laid down I got back up I was sick. I was sick for the next three days. Just out of curiosity I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. Now I have wanted this my whole life but here I was pregnant to a guy I didn't love or so I thought. The guy disapeared as I expected but then I started to think about things. Could it still be my exes baby? There was such a close time. Now I am normally not this kind of a girl and I am always shouting at the t.v. when stuff like this happens but here I was caught in my very own web. It turns out on my visit to the docs that I am 12 weeks pregant. Which means that when I thought I was pregnant I was. And it is my exes and we are back together. Thank god!!! I just wanted to let you all out there know that go with how you feel and to listen to yourself!!! I am so happy!!!


Ashley - August 25

Thank You Jenna!!! Congrats and I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy! I'm glad everything worked out for you (even though i do not know you!) Good Luck!


happy 4 u - August 26

Thanks for your story. IM in the sorta same buissness i have ovarian cyst. hubby and i are ttc. not working yet but theres always a chance. im very happy for you. glad things worked out for you. hope you have a very good pregnancy and everything works out. hope you have a very beautiful and healthy baby. best of luck. please let us know how it works out for you. if youd ever like to talk my yahoo sn is sith_wife_3825. just leave me a offline message and ill get back to you.


Becky - August 29

Thank you Jenna for your story. I too went through a similar pregnancy, I don't have a cyst but I was told when I was 23 that I would have a hard time conceiving. My husband at the time left me because of it. I went through a bout of depression and through all the grief met my soulmate my new Hubby of 4 years. He didn't seem to mind that I had a slim chance, he is a positive gla__s half full kind of a person. We tried for 3 months after we married and I became preg almos instantly. It almost makes me think that it wasn't me in the last marriage but I am not one to point fingers. I just know and I am sure that you know that if you pray hard enough and believe hard enough that it will happen. Good Luck with you Jenna and let us know how the rest of your preg goes. To the rest of you ladies don't give up hope!!! *******baby dust to all*********


Mica - August 29

Jenna, congratulations! I don't think you mentioned, in the mean time, did your af ever start? Did you have a light, late af and figure you weren't pregnant?


Cora - August 29

I think that your story is very touching and I hope that you have a sucessful pregnancy! I am 4 1/2 weeks right now with my first pregnancy and I couldn't be happier. Although I have to admit that it took me several years of trying and "never giving up" to finally concieve. I am 35 and never thought that I too would be experiencing the "joys" of pregnancy. I too have a cyst on my overies and was given a 40% chance of concieving on my own. But, without drugs,or medical help I was able to prove them wrong. If you would like a pregnant buddy to chat with who can sympothize with you then please feel free to email me @ [email protected] Take care Jenna.


Jenna - August 29

I would like to first say thank you to all of the well wishes that everyone is posting you are very sweet! To answer your Q Mica I had what I thought was AF it lasted only 3 days wich is not normal for me but, I am all new to this. lol I am just thankful that it worked out the way that it did, I am blessed and lucky! I wish you girls the best!! Thank you Cora and I wish you a wonderful pregnancy with no morning sickness! I am almost through with that (I hope). Keep the great responces coming!!! :)



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