Whats Up Girls Jules Estee Jue Miss And Chriss

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KEEKEE - July 19

Morning Ladies!!!!....Chriss Honey, I'm so sorry to hear about your bleeding. Please post asap with news from your doctor's appointment. Don't forget about pregnancy bleeding in early pregnancy. It could be pregnancy bleeding. Tons of Hugs and Kisses from Avery, Jordan, Sheba, and me. You have all my prayers and well wishes. Please try to lay down and relax until your appointment...............Jue, sounds like you are having pretty good signs. I hope this is it. Baby Dust Sweetie........Estee!!!! We miss you. You sound so happy about your new home. Good for you..A new start can sometimes be hard. I am so happy for you. It was so nice to hear how happy your family is about the pregnancy. Wow, already 11 weeks. Time go fast. Soon we will be counting down your D day.......Finding out the s_x....We can't wait!!!!.............Jules, Holla!!!!.............Well, I am not in the best mood today. Dh seem to be changing his mind about ttc. I am p___sed off. I don't know what to think. Hopefully we will talk more tonight. I'm trying to keep sadness on the inside...........Holla!!!!

 

jue - July 19

keeks sorry about dh but I think most hubby's go through a "am I ready for another kid, can we afford another, is it fair to put my other half through all that heart ache, what if something went wrong" ectra, show him lots of love, you never know he might be going through that time of the month that men go through PIAS "pain in arse syndrom" he he he, keep your chin up you never know you might already be pg and he will just have to change his mind again, he he he.

 

Estee P - July 19

Oh Chriss, no!! Not this, not for a second time! I'm praying so hard for you at this time! I do hope the bleeding is insignificant and that you keep the baby!!! You hang in there girl, maybe it's a false scare! I can only imagine how sad and scared and disappointed you must feel. We're here for you!!! Take it easy until you get to the doc, maybe you can salvage the pregnancy if you keep still right now? I hope with all my heart you turn out ok. Please holla back the minute you get the verdict! I'm thinking of you all the time. Jules where are you? Jue, nibble away on those sushi, coz you're gonna have to chuck it soon enough when you turn out preggo again. Enjoy all your little taboos for the last time, coz your time's coming on soon! Keeks, you also sound in good spiritis. I wish I could drop in there and visit, your place sounds so warm and comfy and friendly! We've decided that I'll stop working once we've had the baby. I'm hoping everythings keeps going right with us for the pregnancy, but with Chriss' in trouble I'm really worried again! - one should never think you've got it made, coz you never know! It could happen to anyone at any time! I just hope that this is not your second time Chriss, you really don't deserve that!! But if it should happen, you hang in there, sweetie! You're gonna be ok!!! Good luck!!!!!!!!! xxxx

 

Estee P - July 19

Yes, Keeks, I agree with Jue, maybe DH is scared that the perfect world you've got right now will be shattered. He doesn't realize it's gonna add to the perfection even more! But keep talking to him, he'll get by!!! Especially if he sees what it means to you. Remind him also about what your doc said, that your time is running out. But don't demand, just talk softly and tell him how much you want this. I'm sure he won't be able to resist you! Play your tricks, girl, I know you've got a whole bag full of them! :-)))

 

KEEKEE - July 19

How could he change his mind!!!!! I know its not about money, room in the house, or the poor DH act. I think it is about what happen when I was pregnant with Jordan and Avery. I had pre eclampsia twice. So far, I think that is way he is acting funny. He keep bring my pregnancy health up. My doctor said every pregnancy is different. I may not get sick with this last pregnancy. I was so p__sed off last night. He even mention get fixed. Fixed like a dog....What the Hell is wrong with him. See, I'm ready to b__w. Men!!!!!....I just want one more child. We had agreed to that before we got married...3 kids and to have Jordan and the baby a year apart. I hope he get off of work early today. We really need to sit down and talk.......Oh, about the already pregnant comment. He will only have a fit!!! Then I will have to kill him.....Just kidding.......heeeheee....Thanks for letting me vent.....Hey!!!...(evil grin) Would it be bad if I poke a hole in the condom???....heeeheee.....I'm just kidding!! I would never do that.......Oh, I love PIAS...heeehee......Fit him perfectly!!!!

 

Jules - July 19

Chriss - I am so so sorry. I know that my words are just completely inadequate. Like thegirls have mentioned too - I'm also gonna hold thumbs that this could have a happy ending - that maybe there's a chance that this is not another m/c? I am crying with you - I just feel for you and what you're going through right now. Please please let us know how it's going and what's happening with you - soon!!! And if this does end up in a m/c then I hope that your doc will be able to shed some light on things for you and perhaps advise you on what you and Dh can do in future - to better your chances - depending on what the problem is, of course. I am so sorry - and I just wanna send you the biggest hug right now. We ARE here for you - and we're waiting in anticipation of any news you have from your doc's appointment. Lots n lots n lots of loves to you xxxxx

 

jue - July 19

keeks my sis in law has 9 kids from 6 to 28 yrs and had pre-elcampsia with only the first 2 pgs the last 7 were fine with no probs, now your oby/gyn know you had it they can supervise you better and give you meds so it shouldn't happen again. when I had my second m/c in june my hubby was talking about not trying again because he didn't want to see me that upset and heartbroken again, he kept blaming himself for my pain. after a while and a lot of talking and reasurance (me giving him it not the other way round) he finally realized that it can happen and if it did then it showed we could get pg and I would rather take the chance of loosing it and maybe going full term than giving up and always wondering what if. my first m/c was nov 04 and I was 3 months along, I lost it because of stress, me and hubby were going through court and hoping that hubby would win custody or visitation of his two sons (his ex wife has been trying for 8.5 yrs to stop all contact), anyway the judge said hubby could have the boys over night at our house over the xmas period but his ex put a spanner in the works and said that was fine as long as I left the house whilst her boys were staying, as you can guess she hates me because I have her ex, I am also younger and prettier than her plus I have my own business and disabled, any way the judge suggested I leave my home for the night and suggested I stayed with my MOTHER-IN-LAW AAAARRRGGGHHHH NO WAY HELL CAN FREEZE OVER FIRST, oops did I say that :o. well on our way home I started getting cramps which I thought were my af cramps (at this point I had been getting my normal af but it was lighter and I never new I was pg) we got home and I went to the loo and past the baby it was about an inch long, hubby heard my scream and came running thinking it was a spider in the bathroom, he came in and found me covered in blood and holding this very tiny baby, he called the ambulance and it turned out I didn't need a d&c as every thing came away in one go. but they gave me a scan to make sure everything was ok and sent me home and told us to wait 1 month then try again. but I would rather try then not. it is hard on our men in that situation as they blame themselves for our pain, but we still love them anyway even if it is their fault lol. estee and jules don't start thinking it will happen to you as well, you and bump will be fine, if need be contact your doc and have a chat, I am sure they will make sure you both are okay. big hugs to all.

 

Jules - July 20

Heya Gals - Chriss - any news from you? How are you doing? I SO hope and pray that you are okay. Looking forward to hearing some more news from you.................................Keeks, I'm so sorry Dh is being a pain in the arse. I hope he comes back to his senses soon! Don't worry too much about it - you guys are a loving, caring family and I know that you'll work this one out! Jue, your signs and symptoms are still sounding way positive so I hope we get some good news from you soon. Keeks, did you O yet? Jue, I know you O'd very early! Estee, how are you feeling? You're gonna love your 12 week scan! I have scanned the baby pics in so I'll mail them out to ya layder. Also, can't wait for next week Thursday (again I say it!!!) - but I haven't bought anything yet. Dh is still admant it's a girl - and as much as I feel it IS a girl, I'm sticking to the thought that it's a boy! heh heh heh Miss, it was good to hear from you. Always good to stay in the game. You just never know what / when it can happen for ya! Hope everyone is doing okay. Big hugs to all xxxxx

 

Jue - July 20

Hi girls. Chriss hope you and your dh are ok, keep in touch as we all are thinking of you both and send our best for you with lots of hugs, were will be here if you need us. Keeks how did your chat with dh go? hope you are both ok. Miss didn't think you could stop trying yet, he he he, well you never know this could be the time for you. Estee thanks for you good words, untill me and hubby started going through the courts with his ex I never knew a woman could be that nasty or evil, and not only towards us but also her kids. my hubby in all the time I have known hin has never raised his hand to either mine or his boys, plus he has never bad mouthed his ex when his sons are with us. his ex has used hubby's family in court saying his father has hit the boys, then she started saying I hit them, then my eldest was a danger to them. What a lovely person she is plus she is trying to turn the boys against their father for no reason other than she hate him, the courts know her as an aggressive mother. she kicked justin out so she could have her ex boyfriend back and devorced justin, when that fell apart she went out clubbing and dumped justin with the boys, then when I met him, I tried to make friend with her but when I pointed out that an ex was an a__set she got nasty and turned against me too and that is when the courts got involved. 8 yrs of trying to stay in touch and she is moving again and further away from us, it is getting to be the norm. any way Jules calm down if you don't then it will seen to take even longer for thursday to arrive, down girl he he he, go and by some clothes for you and the baby, retail therapy is perfect for taking your mind off some thing. Well my temps went down today to 36.22c this is a first for me, they have never gone this low before, yesterday it was 36.68c. very confusing. chat later hugs

 

Chriss - July 20

Morning ladies. First I want to say a HUGE thank you to each of you for all of your kind words and prayers, it is a very difficult time for me right now and even though a small part of me is still trying to be optimistic, I just can't be that lucky. I had my Dr.'s appt yesterday afternoon and all he did was make and appt for an u/s for me, so the hospital will call me at some point today to go in and then we will know what's really happening. I've heard of some women who are pregnant with twins and end up miscarrying one of them and a small part of me wants to believe that that's what's happening to me, but............................ Anyway, I will know more this afternoon. Keeks, I do hope that you've managed to convince dh to have one more baby! Jules and Estee, sounds like mommy-hood is being good to you, that's so great, you are both so lucky (sniffle, sniffle) Jue and Miss, What's up!! Well I have to go for now, should get some work done, I will let you know what happens with the u/s! Cheers ladies!

 

Jules - July 20

Heya Gals - aaah, Chriss - Thanks for checking in. I can't believe you're having to wait to find out what's up. Please let us know soon about how the u/s went. We're still all holding thumbs n EVERYTHING crossed for you. Big BIG hugs n loves to you xxxxxx

 

Jules - July 20

Heya Jue - my humbled opinion tells me that your dip could be an implantation dip! If you can get to fertilityfriend.com you can see how the pattern goes - with the cla__sic implant dip. Or, the alternative, is that you're about to O for the second time! I presume it's too soon for AF to be rearing her ugly head - so I wouldn't even be concerned about that one? Anyhoo, if this is implantation then you could start with a few symptoms any day now!!! heh heh heh - I do hope so! Oh, sheesh - and I just WISH that we could help Chriss - my heart SO goes out to you now. I just hope you get some answers really really soon. Keeks - whattup there?? Did you kick some Dh arse yet? xxxxx loves to all xxxxx

 

jue - July 20

thanks jules I hope it is implantation dip, we bd every other day since af so it is now just wait and see. my next af is due about 3rd august and keeping fingers crossed she doesn't show up. Chriss sit down and RELAX and that means NO WORK until after you u/s. we are keeping everything crossed for you and hope you are ok. if it helps my mom had the same thing happen as you, when she was under 4 months pg with my brother she started spotting then it got heavy, she was told she had lost the baby but it turned out she had only lost 1 of the twins she was carrying, she went full term with the surviving baby and he is now 33yrs old and built like a brick s**t house. so heres hoping it is nothing to worry about. keep in touch and try not to stress out too much. hugs,tissues and super glue :)

 

Estee P - July 20

Chriss, I still remain hopeful with you. It ain't over till the fat lady sings, so let's wait for the final outcome. I would like to wish you loads of luck for the scan. Jue, I agree with Jules, you could be "implanting"! Keep checking for signs. I wanna ask you girls something: My b___sts haven't really changed in the way they always describe: I still have NO veins, NO montgomery's, very little heaviness left, and haven't had any sore nipples so far! The only change to my b___sts are that they've became very slightly fulller, but the difference is so slight, all my old bra's still fit very comfortably. They are just a bit more round now, like balloons, where they used to "sag" a bit more in the past. Now they're real Pammie b___bs. But really not sore at all, and still at 34 C cup size. Other women (like you Jules) keep mentioning not being able to wear the same underwear anymore or going up a couple of sizes even. And most mention the veins and darkened areolas. Should I be concerned that this hasn't happened to me yet? Am I gonna have b___st feeding problems, and should I mention this to my doc? Anyway, just thought someone would know what to advise. Actually just wanted to know if this is normal behaviour for 10-week-pregnant b___bs? Catch ya tomorrow, girlies. Chriss, I hope you're gonna be fine! Take it easy! xxx

 

jue - July 20

Estee when I was pg with my first my b___bs never realy changed they just got slightly fuller until I got to about 6/7 months then whammy they got huge and my belly popped out, until then I was still wearing skin tight jeans size uk 10, they looked like they were sprayed on me and almost over night my body change into a preggy body, try not to worry if your b___bs don't look any different and you haven't gone up a size in bra, it means when it does happen you will have saved loads of money at the beginning and it will mean you will have more to spend on the baby things you want. when typing my temps I ment to put yesterday temps as 36.74c and todays as 36.22c my hubby was asking for my aunts age at the time and I put her age instead of my correct temp. keep in touch girls. good luck and hugs chriss.

 

KEEKEE - July 20

Morning Ladies.....I have two sicks boys here. They both have colds. I turned on teletubbies and now they are quite. My poor sick Angels!!!........Dh and I didn't talk. I plan to but he hid upstairs playing on the computer.I called him when I put the kids to bed, he said I will be right down. Then he said "I'm in a War"...A war?? He ask for a few more minutes on the game. The few minutes turned into a hour. So I jumped in a bubble bath. He sneaked pa__s me while my eyes was closed. When I came out of the bathroom, the bedroom had tons of candles. My face lit up and he noticed. He had his way with me.....heeeeheeee......We never talked....That man won the battle!!!!!! I plan to win the war.....Tonight is the night....I promised...hheeeeheee.........Chriss please keep your feet up and relax. Sweetie, you have all my well wishes..I plan to kick Mother nature's a__s...I well...This better be pregnancy bleeding or its on.......heeeeehheee....Hugs and kisses!!!........Miss!!!!..... Yahhhhhhh!!!!.... You're back.Go for it!!! You never know. Welcome back!!! I tried to show DH whose boss!! He knew how to shut me up. I will do that tonight...heeeheee...............................BITCH ALERT!!!!!!..........Those poor boys. I can't believe she is using kids as weapons!!!! Jue, you must be a calm women. I would have ran her a__s over and played dump. It do sound like she flipped out when you got with your husband. She need serious Mental help..Hey, maybe we should lock her up in the rubber room......heehheeheee.....Its funny, when my ex saw me, she also flipped out. She would call my house and play on the phone asking for my ex.She even said Avery was too loud. She didn't want his father seeing him. My ex said she is jealous b/c I'm attractive. He said attractive like he was lushing. I felt sick to the stomach. He will never change. That is what she get for having affair with a married man.....heeeheee.....Jules!!!!! One more day!!!! My guess is Girl!!!!!........Estee, Same thing happen with me when I was pregnant with Avery. I also didn't get larger b___sts until 5 or 6 months. I wouldn't worry. You will be complaining about a huge stomach and b___sts in no time. You will see........Holla!!!!!!!

 

jue - July 20

Hi keeks sounds like you could still be in the running for that + this month, hope your munchkins feel better soon. his ex invited us in once for coffee before she turned nasty (that was 8yrs ago) we had just taken her boys home after a weekend visit and hubby was putting them to bed as they were both out for the count, whilst he was putting them to be she asked me how she could get justin out of her sorry their lives (she corrected her word rather quick) and I tried to tell her the pluses of have and ex husband and that was when justin came down and she started slagging him off and making unfound accusations about him, I was sat there with a hot cup of black coffee which I put down quickly and we left, when we got into the car I was shaking so bad I had to get hubby to roll my ciggerette for me and light it, all I wanted to do was go back into her house and tip that coffee over her head and then hit her. I have never felt so angry towards another human being in my life, I even gave her my home phone number and invited her round so she could see where her boys were sleeping at week ends, all I got was post from companies about putting up with an abusive partner and how to get away from them, she had put me down on a list saying I was being abused and beaten by my husband her ex, justin knows if he ever hit me he would have to leave to planet as I would go hunting for him he he he, justin has never raised his hand to me or my boys, which is surprising as my eldest has cracked a coulpe of hubbys ribs when he was younger and hubby never hit him he just restrained him untill my son calmed down. but you can't let people like his ex ruin you lives so I ignore her most of the time. it just upset me when I see her abusing her sons mentally or not getting the yougest boys inhaler when it is 18 month out of date. we have reported her but the courts in this country favour the mother even if she is a druggy. now that gets me mad. well enough of me venting, come on jue take a nice calming breath and relax, back to present, well my ex is back in the country on leave for 12 days before going back out to iraq for another 6 month stint, he had a nice surprise when he got home to find his son waiting for him instead of asking me to take him over after he got back :). well my eldest is on his 3rd day of work experience and loving it. hugs to all and don't over do it ;)

 

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