Dating Only 6 Weeks And Pregnant

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Pebbles - March 24

Hello everyone... I just started dating this wonderful guy about 6 weeks ago and I am ridiculously happy. I am 27 and he is 30. We have completly hit it off and I feel like I have known him for years... We have already talked about out future together, which definitely included children... Just didn't plan on it so soon. Last night I didn't sleep at all and just knew something was weird. This morning I took a test and it lit up bright pink before half the time was up. I am freaking out, and excited. I just have no idea how to tell him. We are still learning so much about each other, I am just nervous about his response... Any suggestions? Pebbles...


maren - March 24

well honestly you just will have to tell him....remember that one time when we had s_x, yea well were now pregnant. No matter how you say it to him if yousugar coat it or just tell him he will more than likely react the same. Good luck.


Pebbles - March 24

I guess I am just being insecure. I have always had a really hard time trusting people and that they are sincere. I have thought he was different from the beginning - I guess this will be the true test tonight. I can't hide it either. We are going to my favorite Italian rest tonight and I ALWAYS order a gla__s of red with dinner. No wine tonight. Or for like a year or 2 for that matter! Oh... I just went home for lunch and took test number 3... still 2 pink lines!


Robyn - March 24

Congrats! He sounds like a good guy - so just be honest with him about your feelings. He might be a little taken-back by this news, so don't get upset if he reacts in a weird way. It may take awhile for it to really settle in for him. Good luck tonight!


Roary - March 24

I was in a very similar situation 2 years ago. My now fiance and I had been dating for all of 7 weeks when I found out I was pregnant. I took a hpt in a bathroom at the university I attend. When it came up positive I just sat there shaking. ( Unfortunately, I miscarried that baby at 12 weeks...not that this is likely to happen to you). We are getting married in May (2006) and I am now pregnant again and on week 26. My point being, my partner responded very maturely about the whole situation even though we really hadn't been together very long at that time and 2 years later we are very happy--together!!! Good luck tonight. I hope it goes well.


SLP - March 26

I am in a similar situation. You just need to tell him and then go from there. My guy was supportive and emotionally available at first and then started freaking out. Just go into the conversation expecting the best but with an open mind. Good luck. Let us know how it goes. BTW, it sounds like your guy is a lot better than mine, so hopefully it *will* work out for you and the baby.


Lu2283 - February 20

I'm in the same boat. I am almost 4 weeks pregnant and I've been dating this amazing guy for 4 weeks. I'm 30 and he's 33, he has 2 kids from a previous marriage. When I told him he had a hard time with it but promised her be there 100% for us. From the minute I met him I knew he was different from the jerks I've dated. He's scared and so am I. But I know it will all work out!



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