I Hope This Can Help

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I understand! - August 15

It's not really a question as much as it is a statement. I just wanted to say that I am 21 and I have a 2 year old. A board just like this got me through my pregancy, single. I hope I can tell you a little bit about me. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years when I got pregnant. I found out one week before my first week of college. I went to school through my whole pregnancy up until the day before I delivered and went back a week later. I pulled through all the struggles and I am now getting ready to enter a nursing program that I thought I would never have gotten in to. My son is my strength but it doesn't matter what you are trying to get through right now you can do this! Your baby will be your strength and no matter what don't let yourselves think that you can't or don't deserve this because God would not have given you these babies if he didn't think that there was no one else in the world that could love them more. Be each others strength because no one can understand you like each other. As for the men they won't stop letting you down from time to time and they will never know your struggle or the strength it takes day after day to wake up. It is you and your babies against the world and they will always believe in you and you will never want for love again. Hold on to that and hold on to them because you are carrying the love of your life for the rest of your life. I know this pain will fade and the struggles will ease show your babies the strength you are capable of because you all know how much you love them all ready. Don't doubt yourselves and most of all find your strength in being a strength for someone else. Even if know one else is I am proud of all of you. I totally understand my story gets a lot worse than that. You all can do it don't forget that because obviously you are something special because you are going on together with or without men but all with your babies. Take care of yourselves!


rea__suring words - August 16

Those words are so rea__suring that I know I can do this. I'm 22 yrs. old and this is my first pregnancy and my bf of 6 yrs left me a few months ago because of this pregnancy. I can say that this board has helped me through a lot of rough days. Thank you everyone for your support and kindness! We can all do this!


a - August 20

Thank you for posting somethign positive and rea__suring. So many people get down on unmarried pregnant women. Yea, it's not the BEST situation, but we will survive!!! Thanks.


meghan - August 20

i can totaly relate, thats exzectly what im doing!!!



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