I Need Help And Support Please

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DarkAngel - June 18

I don't know what to do. Ok, I don't know if in pregnant. I have a very irregular period, and I wore protection the last time, the condom stayed secure as he told me. So I highly doubt That I am, I had s_x almost 4 weeks ago, and the pregnancy test came back negative. So- i guess I just have to wait. But The problem is my boyfriend. I was so scared about being pregnant, and he left me because he said I was putting stress on him, and that if I was he would be hear for the baby and not be. (thing to note I am pro-choice he is pro-life). Ok, then he wanted to get back together, I hesitated because I don't trust him. Now he is in California (over my birthday none the less) My period still hasn’t started. I'm scared (though I'm still worried) but I think maybe its time I leave. But Its so hard, taking that first step, but this relationship is like a roller coaster, and the ups and downs are making me sick. Any stories of success leaving there guys? Its a hard thing to do. Do you think I should?


Lauren - June 18

It doesn't sound like he is very supportive. I was in a relationship for 6 years and I knew it wasn't right for a long time but didn't know how to leave. I felt like I didn't know how to put one foot in front of the other without him. I ended up going to a therapist. The first thing I learned was that before I could make the break I had to be willing to hurt. Once I accepted that I was going to have to go through pain in order to get to a better place in my life I broke up with him. It was the hardest thing I ever did but now - a year later I couldn't be happier. I had to learn how to be independent again and I cried every day for months but in the end it is worth it. I deserved better!! I still see a therapist...it is really helpful to have someone who isn't biased to talk to. At first I was embarra__sed but not anymore. Good luck!!!



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