In Shock Amp Alone

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Jade - April 30

I decided to Divorce my husband after I really found out he was cheating on me. We were living apart for 4 months before this. I had my suspicions he was involved with someone else, but I guess I had to see it with my own eyes. 2 weeks ago I found out I was 11 weeks pregnant. I had no clue what so ever. I had missed 2 monthly's, but sometimes thats normal for me. My husband is living with his girlfriend and I have no clue where they live. My divorce will be final in May. He denied in court he was having any relationships with anyone else. I did call him at work to inform him of my pregnancy and he said oh ok, then hung up on me. I do understand why he would, but its pretty hard to lie about being pregnant. I am sure he probley thought I was lying. I am upset at the fact he left me without anything, Im having a hard time making it on my own. He stoled alot of money from me and he is living the high life with his girlfriend. I raised his daughter from the time she was 3, now she is 8. He refuses to let me have any contact with her. She referred to me as her mommy and it brakes my heart not to see her. So here I am broken hearted and alone with no one special to share this with. I was finally over him, but now I am broken hearted he wants nothing to do with his own child. My Husband cheated with his friend's girlfriend last summer and I was pregnant but lost the baby due to stress I believe. He promised not to see her or have anything to do with her. He kept to his promise until after I lost the baby. I saw him with her Nov. and went after her. She is a evil women and hates me. She accused me of several different things, which were all lies. I did confront her about it, but she denied it. So after I decided to leave she hooked him up with one of her girlfriends. She is bis_xual and the 2 women have something going. I was finally moving on with my life and now I am hit with this bomb. its like opening up old wounds that have almost healed. I was moving on with my life and now I will have to look at him and her for the 18 years of my life. Thats if he decides to have anything to do with the baby. I feel lost, with no way to go. One of the reason he left me is because Stacy (1st girlfriend) felt uncomfortable around me. My husband is 28 years old and works as a firefighter and paramedic. You would think he would have alot more morals than he has. Everything was fine in our relationship or at least I thought until she came into our lives. So what am I to do and how can I get over this. I now time is the only healer of heartbreak. But for now I am crushed beyond belief.



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