My Boyfriend Got Another Woman Pregnant Advice Needed

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mayanin - July 28

Hello everyone, 

I'm glad I'm not the only one who has gone through a situation like this. I was with my boyfriend of four years when his father got a tumor and had to go through major operation. He told me he had a lot of things on his plate so he decided he wanted to end things because he felt he needed to build a career and get his life together. I let him go because I understood no fuss or anything. A week later I see him with a new girl! I did not confront him. Four months pass and he ends up comig back to me telling me that he made a mistake that I was the best woman for him that he left me because he felt like we were at a point where we should get married he freaked out and decided to leave. We ended up hanging out and he let me know that he wanted to get back together. He was stepping up and I even helped him get a new job. I end up going to his house one day and I find a sonogram, he got that girl pregnant! I asked him to explain what happened. He said that they were together for around a month and they mutually decided to break up two months later she comes back and tells him she is pregnant. He told her to move in because it was the right thing to do. But I'm guessing since I came back into the picture she slowly started realizing that he was coming home late and therefore she decided to go back home to her mother. He also mentioned that she has diabetes. Not sure if it  was before she was pregnant of if she developed it. He spends almost everyday with me and feels bad about the situation because he does wish that it was me. At the beginning of the pregnancy she wanted to abort it but he does not believe in abortion so he told her not to that even his mother and him will take care of the baby. They are planning a baby shower and I find it odd that some of her stuff is still at her house even though she is never there. He says he wants to tell her about me after the baby is born which I know he will do. He says he is doing the baby shower becasue he is just playing the part. He has a small doubt that it is not his baby but we won't know until the DNA test. It is just kind of hard to think that after 4 years he was so careless to get someone else pregnant and I am not the one who gets to give him his first baby. My friend tells me that I should not look at that because he wants a family and home with me so that is what I try to look at to help me be strong. If anyone could give me some advice because I really can't talk to many people about it. Grandpa Viv looks like you got some good advice throughout this blog. Hope everyone is doing well.  

 

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Angelina009 - August 24

Hello, I could really use some advice from you. I am actually in a similar situation. I was with my boyfriend for months and he found out that his ex girlfriend was pregnant. She hadn't said anything to him as they weren't on good terms at all(still aren't). At first, It took me by total surprise, I was devastated. I really come to fall in love with him only after those couple of months. At first I had excepted it but couldn't get over he fact that the man I loved was having a child with another woman. My family wouldn't ever except it. I took a week break from him but honestly felt even worse being apart. I went back together with him and I am truly in love. Time passed and now the baby is getting older. Also, only after a few months his baby was born, I found out I was pregnant. I cried and I was so scared. Honestly because he was already struggling financially as is I gave up the baby and I had an abortion. I regret it everyday and I'm in fear that I won't be able to have another child with him( just because he is already financially struggling from the child he has now). It's been a month after my abortion but I'm still grieving. My question to you was since your husband had a child previously was he hesitant to have one with you? Also, I am meeting his family for the first time and I'm very nervous. I know they're going to question why I want to be with a man who has a child.. but this is the man I want to be with and whom I love. I'd really like to receive another persons advice who has something similar as well. Thank you so much! 

 

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Prettylittle_thing - November 14

I am in exactly the same situation. My boyfriend got another woman pregnant. She is much older then him and it’s her first child. She decided to keep it. He told her that he is going to be there for the child. He was casual with her and didn’t want anything serious. But thing turn out that she got pregnant. Long story short. He told her that he doesn’t want to be in relationships with her because he is inlove with me. She didn’t freak out or anything, they agreed to being civil for the sake of a child. And that if I am going to be in their baby’s life she wants to meet me. He is there to support her through her pregnancy. I decided to stay with him and be supportive of him simply because I love him. As of right now for me it’s very hard to settle all this in  in my head but I am trying very hard. He doesn’t want to lose me and asking me to stay with him and that’s what I want as well. I do hope that things will get better, but sometimes I tell myself that I should leave and not complicate things. There is times when I feel insecure because she is the mother of his child, but he does tell me that they have nothing physical happening and that he is there for the baby. We have a great connection, and he truly cares about me and loves me I see and feel it. I just sometimes don’t know how to stop crying over this situation. I get scared at time that I’m going to lose him. He is asking me to be patient and just don’t overreact or get upset when he goes to help her with something. I know that I need to learn to accept this fact since I decided to stay. It helps a lot to know that I’m not the only one in a situation like this. 

 

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