Telling The Father

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Barbara - November 19

I had an abortion 5 months ago and never told the father. It was the hardest thing I've ever done. I thought it would be selfish any other way. I couldn't bear the thought of doing that to him. The guilt was too much. I blamed myself. I was going to take it with me to my grave. We were not in a relationship and he married his first wife because of the same circ_mstances. I didn't want to subject him to that twice. But now I had to tell him. I realize I was wrong. But he is devastated. What should I do?

 

E - November 19

I am sorry to hear this. I feel badly for both of you I wish I had advice for you but I do not as I think it is up to him to either forgive you and move forward or end the relationship. I can understand why he feels devastated by your decision. I hope the two of you can work this out and that he will try to understand why you decided not to tell him. Best wishes and stay strong:)

 

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