15 Prego Confused Scared Yet Excited

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MaMa 2 B - July 6

Well....i'm 15 my name is Heather and up until about today i have felt very excited about havin a baby! but now i am feeling so depressed and so scared...like what if i cant handle giving birth??....i have a tiny body and would if my baby cant devlolp all the way?? what if something is wrong with my baby...like stillbirth or somthin like that! what if i get home and i cant handle it?!?! i am just really confused right now!! i cry about everything!! someone plz just give me some advice!!


kayla_shauntel_05 - July 7

I am not trying to be rude in any way, but this is exactly why young girls should not have babies. You are not physically, mentally, or emotionally mature enough to handle the stress. I know first hand, I've been there. I am 18 and my daughter is only about 6 weeks old. I wont lie to you, it is HARD. I never would have imagined how hard it really is. You just have to hang in there and stick it out. There is no making it go away, and you have to take what comes your way. All you can do is take really good care of yourself now for the sake of your baby. The first few nights home with the baby I did not know how I was going to do it, but it gets better with time. Make sure you eat good, rest plenty, drink lots of water, take your vitamins, and see your doctor on schedule! Good luck and I will think of you in my prayers.


MaMa 2 B - July 7

Thank U...i guess....


Emma2 - July 7

You can handle it and your emotions are normal....you'll cry and laugh be scared and happy and sad all in 10 min....dont worry you'll be fine.


princessAG - July 7

i jsut talked to yu on aim .. the 15 yr old one. and u are very helping so im sure everythyng wil be fyne for yu. im sure u are going to hav a beautiful healthy baby. and i wish the best for yu.us teenagers are very emotinal..even w/o a baby but im sure u can get threw it all.<3


MaMa 2 B - July 7

AWWW thank u princessAG...i hope everything works out for the best for you! i'm sure everything will work out for u and if ya evr need ne thing ya can talk to me!


Corrine321 - July 7

Hun, I am 15 and I just had a baby June 15 and my labor was not that bad.. Its different for everyone though! I started out at 106 lbs! I was verrrry tiny! You will be fine! And its not that hard taking care of my litle one, only at night when you wanna sleep shes awake! lol! thats the only time when i hate to get up! but everything will be fine!!! Good Luck!!


MaMa 2 B - July 7

thank u corrine321that is lots of help!! congrats on ur lil one also!! and i started at 110 so yea but i have gained 6 lbs. haha i feel like i'm gettin huge! well congrats and good luck and if u have aim add me Mz NeW mOmMy or msn [email protected]


DorothyL - July 7

If y0u cant handle giving birth, the d0ct0r will d0 a c-secti0n and im sure u will get s0me drugs f0r it. D0nt w0rry t0 much because w0men have been d0ing it f0rever n0w(this is what i tell myself). at a y0unger age, y0u have a str0nger and healthier b0dy then 0lder w0men... y0u c0uld l00k ar0und f0r teenage supp0rt gr0ups and prenatel cla__ses f0r teenagers. thats what i did, and it really d0es help when u feel al0ne(which u will feel at times). als0... y0u will learn ab0ut nutriti0n(big part 0f pregnancy) and all kinds 0f things. take y0ur prenatal vitamins and read ab0ut being pregnant. it helps.


sarahsmom - July 7

First of all, have you told your parents that you are pregnant? If not, please do so immediately - they need to know so they can help you through this. I am 42 and my 17 yr. old daughter just told me one week ago today that she is pregnant. I flipped out at first, but when I realized that wasn't helping anyone, I calmed down. It's definitely not what I had planned for or hoped for in her life, but what is done is done. I wanted her to abort, but she refuses to do that, so looks like I'm going to be a Grandma! I have 2 kids (also a son - 20) and I'm not going to pretend it's easy, because it's the hardest thing I've ever done in my life! YOU are responsible for another human being! That's a heavy load on anyone - much less a child themselves. Don't kid yourself, 15 is still a child no matter what kind of body you have. Hopefully you have good parents who will support whatever decision you make about your baby. Remember, adoption is a very loving choice to make. It doesn't mean you don't love your baby - just the opposite. Only a truly loving person could put aside her own feelings for the sake of her childs future well-being. If you cannot provide a stable, loving and financially secure life for your child, there are many wonderful couples out there who would love to do that for you. Todays open adoptions make it possible for you to still be involved in your childs life after adoption. It doesn't mean you won't see your child again, just that you won't have such a heavy burden of raising a baby when you are still maturing yourself. This is a huge step toward your own maturity. Good Luck Dear & I wish you only the best of outcomes.


MaMa 2 B - July 7

thank u so much sarahsmom...yes i have told my mom and she is the exact same as u she flipped out and first then realized that i needed her and realized whats done is done she also wanted me to abort but i refused because she let me live so i couldnt handle not letting my child live....adoption is also not an option for me but my mom and my boyfriend and r very supportive...i am in alot of programs that involve prenatal care and also programs that will later teach me how to properly care for my child!! thank u for the advice and i wish u the best of luck with u and ur daughter!


hayz - July 7

I knowhow ur feelin im 15 names Hayley nd recently found out im 9 - 10 weeks pregant im fully excited scared nd confused but i kno i cudnt hav an abortion. but im worried bwt bein kiked out nd wat wil happen. My parents dont kno yet im tellin them in few days nd i know its all going to kick of. Do your parents know?


hayz - July 7

Sorry i just read that you had told our parents im sorry but stil scared lol


MaMa 2 B - July 7

u havent told ur parents....??? how far along r u??


princessAG - July 8

well i took a pregnancy test todai and it came bk negativeeeeee


MaMa 2 B - July 8

oo well maybe that is for the best then...but try to be more careful if u dont wanna have babies yet


Samantha1 - July 20

I think every pregnant woman is like that no matter what the age u still worry about everything



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