17 And Freaking Out BIG TIME

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kristylee - June 4

i've recently started having unprotected s_x with my boyfriend and am really nervous about the outcome. He pulls out everytime but i read about so called 'pre-c_m' and it through me around a bit, and to make things worse my menstrual cycle has been messed up for the past couple of years as in i would only get my period once every say 7-8 months. My doctor says thats normal but somehow i don't think so and if i were to be pregnant i wouldn't be able to tell by being late (also noticed that i've needed to use the toilet a lot). What also doesn't help is that i've mentally convinced myself that i am pregnant and im so scared i don't know who to talk to, my parents would flip if they knew! please help anyone!! :(


Grandpa Viv - June 4

Hi Kristy. Console yourself with the thought that if you only menstruate once in 7 months, you probably only ovulate ditto, thus reducing the chance of pregnancy. Pull-out s_x is pretty unreliable. For instance, if he re-enters with left over s____n in his urethra, that is an invitation for disaster. You seem to know that more frequent peeing (and diarrhea) can be signs of pregnancy, and of PMS. Unusual fatigue is often a good clue, along with b___st and nip changes, emotions, smells, appet_te, veins showing, dreams, stuffy nose, backache etc - all where different from normal PMS. If you get some subset of these signs, wait a week or ten days, then take a home pregnancy test. You really should get some condoms and lubricant of your own, and insist on getting him properly dressed before every entry. GL!


kristylee - June 4

:) thanks that really helped a lot! And dont worry next time i will for sure


kristylee - June 6

still freakin out about it all theres no way i can talk to my parents about it because they will honestly kick me out of home and i have no money to buy a home test so im pretty much stuck and not liking it one bit, i cant even think about telling my boyfriend :(


Grandpa Viv - June 6

Kristy, you need to quit obsessing about this, or you will psych yourself into symptoms. A home test costs only a few bucks at the Dollar Store. Check my profile if you want to talk more.



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