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Jen - September 28

HI there. My husband and I adopted a wonderful baby boy, through an open adoption. He is now 2 1/2 and we are looking to adopt again when he turns 3 or earlier if the right situation arises. I know how important it is for us to network and I think we are very easygoing, nice people who just need to find that special match. Anyway, we are 33 years old. We live in NJ and we are financially secure. We live in a great area to raise kids.. I feel like we are such a great family, we should be able to network and possibly meet a bithmother. We do have a homestudy, we just need to get it updated with one visit. Do you have any advice for us or maybe you have a situation that may fit us at this time? We would like to do an open adoption. Again, no pressure..we are very easy to talk to. If you are interested, email me at [email protected]


Jen - September 29

Just want to put my email at the top again, lol


Xai - September 30

Shouldn't you be doing this LEGALLY with an agency?


Jen - September 30

We did our first adoption with an agency but we want an open adoption and it is 100% LEGAL to find a birthmother on our own, of course we do need an attorney for the paperwork. We want to get to know the birthmother, it's import to us.


Tia - September 30

Im in NJ. im 13. i dont wanna abortion. what do i have to do to give it to you


Jen - September 30

Tia, By the way.......I love your name. If you are really serious about adoption and your parents are too, I would love to get to know all of you and for you to get to know us. I would love to find someone in NJ!! Can I have your email address or can you email me at [email protected]? We are a really nice/honest couple and I would want to make sure this is what you want first. How far along are you? Email me or post your eamil for me.


Jen - October 1

me again


Tia - October 2

my parents kicked me out. bn stayin wit a frend but i have to leave here soon. i dont know email adress cos its my frends parents but ill try find it out


j - October 3



Jen - October 3

Tia, I emailed you back in another subject........I guess my eamil was way too long. I posted it with your name as the heading.


Jen - October 3

Tia, after thinking about your situation further. I'm not sure if I feel comfortable talking to you without your parent permission. You are so young and I don't want to feel like I mislead you in any way. I think you should figure out what you are going to do about your situation before you start thinking about adoption. If you are in NJ, you should call Joanne Donavon from Catholic Charities in Trenton. She is really nice and maybe she can help you. You don't have to be catholic, I'm not but I really like her. She just tries to help people. Maybe she can help you. If you want to talk to me, I will talk to you an I want to talk to you...I just don't want to talk about adoption until you know everything and you are in a better situation.



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